Personal Pity Parties.....

js250 js250
You know the times...when you feel like everything and everyone is doing you wrong, you suck, no one likes you...you don't like yourself....etc,etc,et c...

--How often does this happen to you?
--What are the triggers?
--How do you deal with this/get out of it?
--What is your pity party like?
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laflauta laflauta
I'm really shy and introverted, so bad social feedback really gets to me.

How often does this happen to you? Probably a couple of times a month.

What are the triggers? Disappointing people by not living up to their expectations (this could be in work, school, doing favors), or people getting a bad first impression of me.

How do you deal with this/get out of it? Time or affirmation that I'm not actually terrible.

What is your pity party like? I get more introverted and will shut down just a little bit to the other person, even when I make an effort not to. I analyze what I perceived that I did wrong over and over.
06/11/2013
Chilipepper Chilipepper
I'm in the middle of one - combination of hormones and discouragement in job hunting. I'm feeling pretty fucking worthless right now, and wondering if it was such a good to idea to have not jumped off that bridge back in '09. Considering other things in my life are actually good (engaged to a great guy, etc), it's ridiculous that I'm so thoroughly depressed over not being able to find work.

Fucking hormones. Can't wait until after menopause.
06/11/2013
js250 js250
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Originally posted by Chilipepper
I'm in the middle of one - combination of hormones and discouragement in job hunting. I'm feeling pretty fucking worthless right now, and wondering if it was such a good to idea to have not jumped off that bridge back in '09. Considering ... More
Huge Hugs!!!! You know what???? The river is high this year...hehehe!!
06/11/2013
Chilipepper Chilipepper
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Originally posted by js250
Huge Hugs!!!! You know what???? The river is high this year...hehehe!!
lol Not surprised with all that snow the past few months.
06/12/2013
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