Good luck with your choice if it was me I would pick eather (in order of what I like most but thats just me) the Black cat collor, Purple fur line wrist restraints, the whip, Hitachi magic wand vibrator or Beginner ball gag if you havent tried ball gags before you might like it
I finally broke down and bought the Hitachi in my last order. And I have the Tiger and the Big Boss and the only reason I have not bought Elegance yet is the head is a little pointy. otherwise? He'd be mine!!!
I also voted for the cushion because then, you can figure out the positions that work best on it, so in your next order when you get your cuffs and such? You won't need to have two learning curves. Just one. Plus cushions and ramps of VERY multipurpose!