Which would you rather be?

unfulfilled unfulfilled
Just curious, I have a friend with this issue.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
The one they want to live with
- Kira - , Antipova , JackRaiden , Beck , OhMy! , Missmarc , KissTheSkyBaby , U3H
8  (21%)
The one they can't live without
Highmaintenancegirl916 , punkstar283 , Ms. N , GONE!
4  (11%)
both
Ryuson , Subbi , Anjulie , aliceinthehole , Curiouscat , sktb0007 , Rossie , TameTemptress , AmberM , Elnoa , biancajames , LoveTies , jedent , js250 , married with children , dv8 , (k)InkyIvy , Fun with Dick & Jane , deltalima , BrittaniMaree , pussy licker , sweettartjellybean , XxFallenAngelxX , lovelyzombie
24  (63%)
Neither, I prefer the single life
Other- explain
12345678 , Voir
2  (5%)
Total votes: 38
Poll is closed
01/04/2012
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Ryuson Ryuson
Both?
01/04/2012
- Kira - - Kira -
"The one they can't live without" perhaps sounds a little codependent? I don't think my husband would want to live without me, but I know he could if something should ever happen to me. I like that he is independent in that way. I'm not like that, so I appreciate the quality in others. I like that he doesn't necessarily need me, but chooses to live with me and be with me anyway.
01/04/2012
Anjulie Anjulie
Quote:
Originally posted by Ryuson
Both?
Same here
01/04/2012
Antipova Antipova
Quote:
Originally posted by - Kira -
"The one they can't live without" perhaps sounds a little codependent? I don't think my husband would want to live without me, but I know he could if something should ever happen to me. I like that he is independent in that way. ... More
I'm with Stainedclear...

I thought this was going to be a poll where a fella had two girls, one he wanted to live with and one he wanted to see on the side.

When I was younger I really enjoyed being the girl with her own nice apartment that boys could stop in and see when they were feeling on-top-of-the-world (not cheating, though, everything open!), so I was going to vote that I would rather be the longed-for-one outside the relationship...

... but if the options are "wants to live with" and "can't live without," one is healthy, and the other is kinda codependent, so I'll stick with the more independent of the two options
01/04/2012
Curiouscat Curiouscat
I said both. But I wouldn't want my partner to be so depended on me. Or to needy perhaps?
01/04/2012
sktb0007 sktb0007
I voted both. Of course he could survive without me, but he'd prefer to always have me.
01/04/2012
Rossie Rossie
Both, but a little less on "the one they can't live without". My husband doesn't know how to operate the washer/dryer and the dishwasher, maybe it's my fault, since I've never asked him to.
01/04/2012
TameTemptress TameTemptress
Both
01/04/2012
AmberM AmberM
Quote:
Originally posted by sktb0007
I voted both. Of course he could survive without me, but he'd prefer to always have me.
This
01/05/2012
biancajames biancajames
Quote:
Originally posted by sktb0007
I voted both. Of course he could survive without me, but he'd prefer to always have me.
Agreed!
01/05/2012
biancajames biancajames
Ideally? Separate apartments but we'd get together a lot.
01/05/2012
Beck Beck
Quote:
Originally posted by Antipova
I'm with Stainedclear...

I thought this was going to be a poll where a fella had two girls, one he wanted to live with and one he wanted to see on the side.

When I was younger I really enjoyed being the girl with her own nice ... More
I am going to have to agree with you both.
01/05/2012
jedent jedent
better than can't live with me, can't live without me.
01/05/2012
12345678 12345678
I'm not sure I want to be the one someone can't live without. That sounds a little codependent/borderline unhealthy, imho.
01/06/2012
Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by unfulfilled
Just curious, I have a friend with this issue.
I'd rather be the one he wants to live with. I like my partner being more independent.
01/06/2012
punkstar283 punkstar283
Quote:
Originally posted by unfulfilled
Just curious, I have a friend with this issue.
Can't live without
01/06/2012
js250 js250
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
Both, but a little less on "the one they can't live without". My husband doesn't know how to operate the washer/dryer and the dishwasher, maybe it's my fault, since I've never asked him to.
This is about like our relationship.
01/06/2012
married with children married with children
I guess both
01/07/2012
<3BF <3BF
Quote:
Originally posted by biancajames
Ideally? Separate apartments but we'd get together a lot.
I like this idea. Now that we live together we rarely pretty ourselves up when we are going to see each other which would be nice.
01/13/2012
Ms. N Ms. N
As long as there is equal agreement in the "can't live without" area, I am for it. I like my personal space, so I don't particularly want him underfoot all the time.
01/13/2012
Voir Voir
Other - indifferent... If they want to live with me they can if not ohwell. If they can't live without me... maybe they should re-evaluate some things.
12/17/2012
KissTheSkyBaby KissTheSkyBaby
I want to be the person he wants to live with. The person he's looking forward to coming home to and seeing when he wakes up. The person he want's to share or forget his day with.
I don't want to be the one he can't live without. That would imply that his happiness depended on my existence. In my experience those kind of relationships can be all absorbing and the person or persons can lose themselves completely. I would hope if I was ever to not be in his life he would still live and love to the fullest.
12/17/2012
BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
Both
12/17/2012
pussy licker pussy licker
Both
12/17/2012
lovelyzombie lovelyzombie
both
05/15/2013
Total posts: 26
Unique posters: 25