Your first sexual partner...A question?

Martiniman Martiniman
Do you still think about your first sexual partner? Are you in a relationship with them? Do you stay in contact with them or are they a distant memory?
04/23/2013
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padmeamidala padmeamidala
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Originally posted by Martiniman
Do you still think about your first sexual partner? Are you in a relationship with them? Do you stay in contact with them or are they a distant memory?
My first sexual partner was my first husband. We are divorced and no longer together but we still talk. We share a child together so that's why we keep in touch.
04/23/2013
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
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Originally posted by padmeamidala
My first sexual partner was my first husband. We are divorced and no longer together but we still talk. We share a child together so that's why we keep in touch.
Same here, only we have two children together. I see him twice a week because of the kids, but we're good friends at this point so that makes things easier.
04/23/2013
Hummingbird Hummingbird
Occasionally I remember my first long term (2 years of dating) partner and wonder what he's doing now but it is only a brief thought. He had this great Honda 750 motorcycle and we used to travel all over the countryside on it and into the mountains. He even painted it my favorite color. Actually I think its the Honda 750 I remember most fondly and often.
04/23/2013
melissa1973 melissa1973
I have a bad memory when it spans over X amount of years, I actually forgot lol.
04/23/2013
tequilafish tequilafish
Mine is my former bff. We dated from around 8th grade to the beginning of high school, then went back to being best friends. We still talk on the internet occasionally, but we haven't actually seen each other in the last year or so.
04/23/2013
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Distant memory - that was about 43 years ago. I do remember the event and the person with fondness - but have had no contact for at least 35 years.
04/23/2013
Scythe Scythe
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Originally posted by Martiniman
Do you still think about your first sexual partner? Are you in a relationship with them? Do you stay in contact with them or are they a distant memory?
I lost my virginity to an older woman on my 15th birthday,i wasn't in a relationship with her but always remember how kind she was in taking my virginity since i didn't know what the hell i was doing.
04/23/2013
Mr. John Mr. John
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Originally posted by Martiniman
Do you still think about your first sexual partner? Are you in a relationship with them? Do you stay in contact with them or are they a distant memory?
It's a very distant memory. I have not really thought about it until now.
04/23/2013
Gary Gary
No, no and no. It's been so long that unless it is specifically brought up like this... it isn't even really there. No regrets or anything, just so long ago.
04/23/2013
ChubbyNerd ChubbyNerd
I lost my virginity last October, so it wasn't that long ago. I still think about it from time to time, but I try not to since I could care less about him now.
04/23/2013
LoveX LoveX
No, I don't think about him anymore, and haven't talked to him in a very long time.
04/23/2013
KinkyKatieJames KinkyKatieJames
Nope. Don't think of him unless someone asks about my first time. We broke up on good terms and are friends on Facebook, but nothing more.
04/23/2013
Sammi Sammi
Nope. I don't even remember his name.
04/23/2013
bayosgirl bayosgirl
Yes, even though I'm now married to another man, I still think about my ex, my first love, sometimes. I think it's normal. Not that I would ever want to be with him again, but the memories don't just go away.
04/23/2013
Checkmate Checkmate
Sure I think of her. I wake up each morning looking at her.
04/23/2013
MrWill MrWill
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Originally posted by Martiniman
Do you still think about your first sexual partner? Are you in a relationship with them? Do you stay in contact with them or are they a distant memory?
Not so much. I thought about her because of this post, but when I do think about her I kinda laugh. She left me for a guy that looked just like me, who ended up sleeping with a guy 3 days after they got together... so yeah.. karma. lol
04/24/2013
Ryuson Ryuson
Kinda dark, but I suppose it has to do with what you consider a 'first sexual partner.' Ahem, away from that topic, I really don't think about any of my exes that often. It's less about regret and more that things don't really remind me of them!
04/24/2013
Hentialover Hentialover
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Originally posted by Martiniman
Do you still think about your first sexual partner? Are you in a relationship with them? Do you stay in contact with them or are they a distant memory?
Well, all though I never dated my first sex partner. I did she her around town often enough. At first it was kinda awkward, but after a while it just became a faint memory. I still think about the act itself though, and we do text each other from time to time. She's a nice enough women, but I doubt I'd sleep with her again.
04/24/2013
Hentialover Hentialover
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Originally posted by Checkmate
Sure I think of her. I wake up each morning looking at her.
Escuse me while I overload on the 'awwwww' haha. sweet.
04/24/2013
bratcat bratcat
When we first broke up and a couple years after i would think about them quite often. Having been with many more people now, i dont give them much though, but we do stay in contact via facebook.
04/24/2013
yrnw yrnw
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Originally posted by Martiniman
Do you still think about your first sexual partner? Are you in a relationship with them? Do you stay in contact with them or are they a distant memory?
mine was my first boyfriend. To this day, he's been my longest relationship. I would occasionally think back on those times fondly, but we had a falling out not too long ago. I don't keep in touch with him, but we have classes together and mutual friends, so I run into him often.
04/24/2013
Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
Mine is my current partner so yes, I still see him daily
04/24/2013
Martiniman Martiniman
I think of my first sexual partner occasionally, both happy and sad thoughts. She was my girlfriend and high school sweetheart, both of us losing our virginity to each other. We dated for almost two years before breaking up, and a lot of sexual learning and growing were done in that time frame. However, she passed away 20 years ago in her early twenties of an illness. Maybe it was the anniversary of her death, as I am quite happy and in love with my wife, but I was thinking of her and wanted to ask the question.
04/24/2013
Trysexual Trysexual
Occasionally. We used to keep in touch 1-2x./yr.
04/24/2013
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