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Yes, I did and it was nice. There was something magical about all the time spent kissing and not rushing to other things back in the day.
I agree there is something so nice about not having the "goal" to rush toward! Everyone knew that all that was going to happen was kissing & maybe some touching, but with everything else off the table, you get more creative & take your time honing your skills. I was 15 when I was first kissed & that kiss led all the way to oral sex for me, (not him because his parents called to say they were coming home, ha ha)! I decided that was too much, too soon, (probably because he didn't do so well & I was clueless), so, for the next year or so, it was kissing only.
By the time I was older, everything was allowable except for penis in vagina, (PIV), sex - and it stayed that way until I was 24! And let me tell you, I and my partners got really good at it & it was so satisfying, there was no pressure to go beyond it. I learned a lot about my body & looking back, I think the male partners I had learned a lot they would otherwise have rushed through & missed. By the time I had PIV sex, I was well rounded & ready, so I had a fabulous time! The only thing that could have made it better would be if I was in love with the guy.