We had our usual CLOSE friends dinner on Friday Night at a local eatery (we go somewhere different every week....four to twenty couples). All have college age kids or older. A BUNCH had their college kids with them, since it is summer break, and so the kids were in on our more "tame" discussions, and we were surprised at the number who said they date for "FUN", often dating those they "KNOW they would NEVER want as a marriage partner". IN the "olden days" (we all range from about late forties to mid sixties), when WE were dating, you ALWAYS at least considered "dating was a way to find a spouse". We ALL agreed on this, but realize it may well NOT be the way things are now. What about YOU?