Does it upset you if your significant other falls asleep on you directly after any sex act?

Yebby Yebby
My boyfriend is in the military and is stationed out of state. We were "sexting" and as soon as he got off he quit texting and fell directly asleep.
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Doesn't really bother you
newfoundlust , Gunsmoke , padmeamidala , LostBoy988 , ToyingCouple , *Ashley* , Howells , clp , married with children , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , big b , Alan & Michele , Checkmate , Anjulie , Jackol , Reyes , darthkitt3n , link82 , Lady Marmelade , indiglo , deletedacct , That Man from Mars , VieuxCarre , Bignuf , LavenderSkies , Lummox , The Curious Couple , pixieluv , MN58 , GirlOnGirl , lovebites , Missmarc , edenguy , hem
34  (64%)
Somewhat irks you
Dawn (Lilac Distraction) , Lio , Airen Wolf , Rachel Nunez , GravyCakes , MaryExy , salaciousrex , froggiemoma , iveversxe , DCorrelle , Kdlips , zeebot , SadoMas , potstickers , TehCouch
15  (28%)
Pisses you off
Yebby , Akira , DeliciousSurprise , zz1aag
4  (8%)
Total votes: 53
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05/20/2011
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SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
I have been pissed over this before, but it depends on the circumstances honestly. If I'm pretty tired myself & on the same wavelength, so be it. I swear, though, guys & their single, short orgasms (heh heh) have an after reaction similar to eating an entire turkey to their head. lol
05/20/2011
newfoundlust newfoundlust
Quote:
Originally posted by Yebby
My boyfriend is in the military and is stationed out of state. We were "sexting" and as soon as he got off he quit texting and fell directly asleep.
Its happened with both of us, particularly when its "sleepy sex" as we call it and after a particularly extended session as well. Just means that you completely satiated your lover, which is kind of nice to know...sweet dreams my lover
05/20/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
If we have ex earlier in the day, we both get up and move on. However, like many we have sex just before its time for bed, so falling asleep after the play is the natural order of things.
05/20/2011
Dawn (Lilac Distraction) Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
I'd try to take it as a compliment that you pleased him enough to make him pass out. However, "goodnight" is always super cute.
05/20/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Yebby
My boyfriend is in the military and is stationed out of state. We were "sexting" and as soon as he got off he quit texting and fell directly asleep.
It pisses me off when he falls asleep during a sex act. Yes, he's done this, sometimes more than once in a week. I do tend to get a little upset when he falls asleep when we're getting it on. This is recent development and it waxes and wanes.

If he falls asleep after sex, and I've had a chance to have my orgasms? No, not at all. I know this man, and I'm usually surprised when he doesn't. If it's morning, though, he usually jumps out of bed to do things almost as soon as we are done. At night, he's out like a light.
05/20/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Yebby
My boyfriend is in the military and is stationed out of state. We were "sexting" and as soon as he got off he quit texting and fell directly asleep.
It pisses me off when he falls asleep during a sex act. Yes, he's done this, sometimes more than once in a week. I do tend to get a little upset when he falls asleep when we're getting it on. This is recent development and it waxes and wanes.

If he falls asleep after sex, and I've had a chance to have my orgasms? No, not at all. I know this man, and I'm usually surprised when he doesn't. If it's morning, though, he usually jumps out of bed to do things almost as soon as we are done. At night, he's out like a light.
05/20/2011
DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
If I've asked them to stay awake post-sex, then yes I'm cranky.

If I haven't gotten off, then I'll be cranky.

And if I don't get the appropriate petting, I'm cranky.

But I'm kinda high maintenance.
05/20/2011
Jul!a Jul!a
If he fell asleep during a sex act, I'd be upset. If he fell asleep literally on me, I'd be upset. Directly afterwards, I wouldn't be very upset unless we had things to do that day.
05/20/2011
LostBoy988 LostBoy988
Shouldnt bother you at all.
05/20/2011
BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
Quote:
Originally posted by DeliciousSurprise
If I've asked them to stay awake post-sex, then yes I'm cranky.

If I haven't gotten off, then I'll be cranky.

And if I don't get the appropriate petting, I'm cranky.

But I'm kinda high maintenance.
05/20/2011
BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
I can't even vote on this because you were texting. I suppose a "goodnight" would have been nice, but it's not like he was right there with you.

I won't lie and say that I've never fallen asleep during a sexual act before, it's rare, but it's happened. Usually when we're trying very late at night and we've spent too long on the caressing... it's so damn relaxing.

Last night, I was energized and he was asleep pretty much by the time I stood up to go to the bathroom. It didn't bother me because he had to get up and I was too hyped up (I blame a combination of the Seed and the Pure Wand... ) to lie down peacefully.

I would be more cranky, like DeliciousSurprise said, if I hadn't gotten off; but then, we usually take care of me first because I tend to either take a long time, or have like 15 orgasms.
05/20/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
This had not happened to either of us in the 20 some odd years we have been together.
05/20/2011
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Yebby
My boyfriend is in the military and is stationed out of state. We were "sexting" and as soon as he got off he quit texting and fell directly asleep.
I had a harder time when Arch fell asleep DURING a sex act....course then again he was stupid tired and it was even more stupid late....but still.
05/20/2011
Howells Howells
No not at all, it's cute. We can sleep in together, right after
05/20/2011
clp clp
I'm usually the one doing the snoozing, so I always appreciate my partners' patience.

I can't help it! There's a very small window I can fall asleep in afterwards! *pout*
05/20/2011
Rachel Nunez Rachel Nunez
Doesnt piss me off.. but it irks me
05/20/2011
married with children married with children
has never happened. But if it did, I do not think it would bother me too much.
05/21/2011
A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
It has never happened to me either, but I'd be okay if it did. I might also be glad that I drained my partner of so much energy.
05/22/2011
big b big b
no glad to help her get good nite sleep
05/22/2011
Anjulie Anjulie
Doesnt bother me. I like if she gets some sleep.
05/22/2011
GravyCakes GravyCakes
Quote:
Originally posted by Yebby
My boyfriend is in the military and is stationed out of state. We were "sexting" and as soon as he got off he quit texting and fell directly asleep.
sometimes my guy goes straight to sleep & it irks me, but sometimes i fall asleep too, lol.
05/29/2011
salaciousrex salaciousrex
Sometimes I fall asleep shortly after sex, but if it's like literally a second after he finishes, or even worse DURING sex I get a little weird sometimes
05/29/2011
link82 link82
It depends on the situation, but it usually doesn't bother me.
06/05/2011
indiglo indiglo
It happens sometimes, though I must say my man is VERY good at the cuddling and chit chatting after sex. VERY good. We have had some of our deepest, most thought-provoking conversations after sex. And other times we talk about childhood experiences, or baseball. Sometimes he does fall asleep right after, but it doesn't bother me. I just putter around on my laptop and entertain myself while he snores away. I'll come on Eden, do emails, watch Netflix, and feel really content with him snoring away right next to me. Sometimes after an hour or so he'll wake up, and then we'll chat, and sometimes not. It's fine with me either way. He really can't help it, he's all doped up on oxytocin!
06/06/2011
deletedacct deletedacct
As long as i got off or had fun it doesn't really bother me.
06/06/2011
VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
We both fall asleep after sex or an orgasm over the phone, though I tend to do it more often. It irritates him sometimes when I get tired after the big "o" so he's gotten to the point where I'm not allowed to cum until he does. This makes me a sad panda, but a girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do to keep her man happy
06/06/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Yebby
My boyfriend is in the military and is stationed out of state. We were "sexting" and as soon as he got off he quit texting and fell directly asleep.
It wouldn't bother me.
06/09/2011
iveversxe iveversxe
Sometimes yes, sometimes no. Depends on how I'm feeling.
06/11/2011
That Man from Mars That Man from Mars
Not at all, it's pretty common for either of us.
06/11/2011
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