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for me. my turn off is a movie. I would want to do something to know you. not avoid you.
Good point, but a movie can also stimulate conversation about it later and help break the ice for people who are not sparkling conversationalists, right?
I will add more turn offs:
--Never returning calls or messages. You know, the person you can only speak to if you catch them answering the call or you run into them in person. (In other words, people make time for what, and whomever, is important to them!!!)
--Only interested in talking about himself and never asking any questions about you (other than a quick, "How are you?" with absolutely no follow through. For example: the woman replies, "I am fine now, but I recently was in the hospital" to which the man then says, "Awww" or worse, a
and nothing else!!) I thought this was included under dismissiveness in my previous list, however I think this needed it's own place.