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There are plenty of single woman but I am not attracted to them at all. I don't presume that I am shallow, there are many overweight woman and "less attractive" woman that I would see myself as being great friends with, because most of
There are plenty of single woman but I am not attracted to them at all. I don't presume that I am shallow, there are many overweight woman and "less attractive" woman that I would see myself as being great friends with, because most of these woman are truly lovely woman. But I can't ever see myself with one of them because I may like there personality, but honestly If im not physically attracted to them, I wouldn't be able to have a physical relationship with them, which means I wouldn't see myself with them for long. Not saying I want sex immediately in a relationship (although I probably do lol) But if I'm unable to stand being intimate than it just won't work.
I agree with SydVicious here.
I will say physical attraction is important, but you may become physically attracted to a woman after getting to know her. Having a "type" can often hinder someone in meeting a person they would be amazing with. I have several friends who are "overweight" that are gorgeous...I would kill to be as beautiful as some of them. The same goes for "plus size" models (sorry...I really think they should just be called models); a lot of them are so beautiful it is ridiculous.
My own opinion here (and I am not trying to offend anyone, so please don't feel I am) is that when you are having trouble meeting someone, and you want to meet someone, you may need to take a step back and ask yourself what you are really looking for in a girl. If it is mostly physical you may not be looking for something long term (then again, maybe you are...who knows).
I suggest looking at where you are looking for these girls at, and even who you are around when you are trying to meet them (if you or your friends have an off putting attitude that will be a factor). Plus, for me anyway, when you are nice to other women that can be more attractive to everyone else around you. I have turned down a lot of very attractive men because of attitudes...their's and their friends'.
Evaluate what you are really looking for and think about where those women might be.
It could also be that because you are looking it is harder. If you aren't looking for a woman you may meet one faster...kind sneaks up on you. I wouldn't stress on it (especially because you're young) you have plenty of time. If you are nice and have fun, you will meet someone.