Is there a such thing

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Is there a such thing

K-smith K-smith
It seems there is not a such thing as a single woman around my age, even rarer is a single woman I'm attracted to, EVEN RARER is a single woman I'm attracted to who is around my age and is attracted to me. Damn, it honestly seems there are way more men that females in the world. That being said, I think the saying there's someone for everyone, is a hopeful idiots ranter. I honestly can't remember that last time I saw a single woman that i was attracted to.
10/15/2010
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K-smith K-smith
There are plenty of single woman but I am not attracted to them at all. I don't presume that I am shallow, there are many overweight woman and "less attractive" woman that I would see myself as being great friends with, because most of these woman are truly lovely woman. But I can't ever see myself with one of them because I may like there personality, but honestly If im not physically attracted to them, I wouldn't be able to have a physical relationship with them, which means I wouldn't see myself with them for long. Not saying I want sex immediately in a relationship (although I probably do lol) But if I'm unable to stand being intimate than it just won't work.
10/15/2010
SydVicious SydVicious
I'm not really sure what you are asking here. It seems like you are just ranting about how you can't find a single female, your age who is skinny and likes you back. To be perfectly honest the problem may be you attitude toward women... fat, thin and everything in between women like to be treated with a little respect.
10/15/2010
J's Alley J's Alley
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Originally posted by K-smith
There are plenty of single woman but I am not attracted to them at all. I don't presume that I am shallow, there are many overweight woman and "less attractive" woman that I would see myself as being great friends with, because most of ...
I agree with SydVicious here.

I will say physical attraction is important, but you may become physically attracted to a woman after getting to know her. Having a "type" can often hinder someone in meeting a person they would be amazing with. I have several friends who are "overweight" that are gorgeous...I would kill to be as beautiful as some of them. The same goes for "plus size" models (sorry...I really think they should just be called models); a lot of them are so beautiful it is ridiculous.

My own opinion here (and I am not trying to offend anyone, so please don't feel I am) is that when you are having trouble meeting someone, and you want to meet someone, you may need to take a step back and ask yourself what you are really looking for in a girl. If it is mostly physical you may not be looking for something long term (then again, maybe you are...who knows).

I suggest looking at where you are looking for these girls at, and even who you are around when you are trying to meet them (if you or your friends have an off putting attitude that will be a factor). Plus, for me anyway, when you are nice to other women that can be more attractive to everyone else around you. I have turned down a lot of very attractive men because of attitudes...their's and their friends'.

Evaluate what you are really looking for and think about where those women might be.

It could also be that because you are looking it is harder. If you aren't looking for a woman you may meet one faster...kind sneaks up on you. I wouldn't stress on it (especially because you're young) you have plenty of time. If you are nice and have fun, you will meet someone.
10/15/2010
sextoygeek sextoygeek
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Originally posted by SydVicious
I'm not really sure what you are asking here. It seems like you are just ranting about how you can't find a single female, your age who is skinny and likes you back. To be perfectly honest the problem may be you attitude toward women... ...
I agree with Syd and J's. You just sound like you're whining cause you can't find any girls that fit this perfect model in your head. Let go of that and really get to know some girls (no matter the size) and see what happens.
10/15/2010
Owl Identified Owl Identified
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Originally posted by SydVicious
I'm not really sure what you are asking here. It seems like you are just ranting about how you can't find a single female, your age who is skinny and likes you back. To be perfectly honest the problem may be you attitude toward women... ...
"To be perfectly honest the problem may be you attitude toward women... fat, thin and everything in between women like to be treated with a little respect."

(Sigh) oh gurl, you took the words from my mouth. You are wonderful

I am thin and I would honestly never want to date a guy that would discriminate against a woman based on her size. In the back of my mind I'd know that his attraction to me was dependent on my looking a certain way...and that just doesn't sound like a very loyal partner to me.
10/15/2010
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