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I've had thoughts about accidnetly falling in love with my boyfriend's best friend (who is a lesbian, I am bisexual) while he is away at basic.
While I have falen in love with my same sex before I can't say I've ever "accidentally" fallen in love with anyone! I have fallen for people and realized they weren't good for me or that it was not going to work out (for whatever reason) but it was always a very concious decision on my part.
I would caution you that if you are in a momogamous relationship and your partner expects you to remain faithful then acting on your impulses would be cheating...similarly if your actual partner isn't there to share the joy of your new romance you might be cheating him out of something amazing.
Still....thoughts aren't criminal are they? Youare entitled to imagine and fantasize about whatever you wish.
Sounds like you are lonely and possibly a little afraid of what the future might hold.