Slow,deep and passionate kissing always gets the mood started for us. After things start to heat up, slowly move your hands to gently touch her breasts and see how she reacts. If she's ready to do more she will let you know. Just go slow, and allow her time to respond to you, not react to your touching her. I have alot of respect for women and will not pursue doing any thing they are not ready to do. If she is comfortable with you touching her, you can try to move her hand to your crotch area, and see what she does. I've never had a woman not like that, and it kind of leaves what comes next up to her. Always try and please her first, and it will make her feel special, not like you are just trying to "get some".