Do You Feel Comfortable Being Naked After Sex?

briluminary briluminary
I'm a timid person and always feel a bit shy after having sex with my boyfriend and don't really prefer to just sit around naked and like to conceal myself, I don't dislike my body but just feel so awkward being undressed when we're not hooking up.
08/04/2011
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Jul!a Jul!a
You're not the only one. Even if we're having sex right before bed, we still get up to put underwear on most of the time after we're done.
08/04/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
I've worked to become comfortable with my body. I like to lie around after sex naked, or even fall asleep with no clothes on. Although I do sleep better with at least panties on. We have kids, so I can't walk around nude, but I do like to lie there happily without having to do anything or search for my panties and clothes for a while.

I often tease My Man when I get up, still nude and say, "This is what I'm wearing today!" after morning sex. It's an old joke, but he still laughs every time.

The more time you spend in the buff the more comfortable you'll be.
08/04/2011
newfoundlust newfoundlust
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Originally posted by briluminary
I'm a timid person and always feel a bit shy after having sex with my boyfriend and don't really prefer to just sit around naked and like to conceal myself, I don't dislike my body but just feel so awkward being undressed when we're not hooking up.
Not unusual when you are young and single. On the other extreme, we are both about to turn 50, and have been married for 24 years. We thoroughly enjoy being naked with each other afterward for a while. Neither of us is young, or thin, but we love the intimacy of it.
08/04/2011
MaryExy MaryExy
I feel more comfortable after sex being naked than before, definitely. Usually I try to cover up with something after, though (mostly because I'm cold...)
08/04/2011
meitman meitman
I don't feel uncomfortable about it but I don't usually spend much time naked. There's just too many kids and windows without curtains in our house.
08/04/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I agree with P'Gell and newfoundlust on this one. When you are younger and in a relationship this is normal.

However, with long term commitment and age(at least in my experience) you grow to accept your body and embrace the things you cannot change. From this acceptance, comes comfort and contentment (both, of which I speak, are a positive things in this regard).

We have been married 18 years and are completely comfortable with nudity around each other. There are days we do not wear any clothes at all. Both of us are lugging a few extra pounds we'd rather not, but we appreciate the comfort and closeness we share when we are in the nude state after we make love or otherwise.

We have a standing rule in our bed...there are no clothes allowed in/on it!
08/04/2011
catgirl9 catgirl9
I love being naked after sex! When the kid is gone, we like to sleep naked. I used to always cover up after sex though, and it's only been in the last few years that I've gotten really comfortable with being naked after sex.
08/04/2011
Liz2 Liz2
I don't feel all that comfortable with being nude other then in bed. But I sleep nude most of the time, so if we have sex at night and staying in bed, that's it.
At other times, after sex, I will pull something on, usually a long T shirt to hang out.
08/04/2011
Yaoi Pervette (deleted) Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
Being naked is no big deal to me.
08/04/2011
AngelvMaynard AngelvMaynard
I've been with my husband most of my adult life, so being naked around him feels as natural as being naked when I'm alone. I agree with the ones above who said it's something that comes with time and trust. However, I think some people are modest and some not so much. Cover up until you feel like you don't need to
08/04/2011
babyrock babyrock
Yes, it's about the most natural state of being for me after sex.
08/04/2011
guard083 guard083
I don't mind it
08/04/2011
extrafun extrafun
I luv being naked all of the time
08/04/2011
Elnoa Elnoa
I am pretty much naked as much as possible. I only wear clothes when I have to.
08/04/2011
Rossie Rossie
I usually wear a kimono before sex, both for cover up and to stay warm, then strip it off when things start to heat up.
08/04/2011
kjkitty kjkitty
As far as him seeing me naked, I am totally comfortable with that. I am almost always naked at my apartment. But after sex I'm REALLY wet and I'm usually much more comfortable (physically) if I just throw on some underwear.
08/04/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Back before kids we always fell asleep naked, we enjoyed the close skin contact afterwards. Early on in the relationship the wife liked to have the light off so she may have been a bit self conscious but she has long since lost that. I think it just comes with time together.
08/04/2011
melissa1973 melissa1973
We don't have a problem being nacked in front of each other,with the clothes already off, it gives more time for the next round.
08/04/2011
indiglo indiglo
I enjoy being naked, period. Being naked together after sex is the most natural thing in the world for us. We lie around naked chatting, flirting, laughing, maybe eating/drinking... sometimes it'll lead to another round, but even if it doesn't it just feels so intimate and special. I'm modest around other people, don't like to show cleavage, don't like to wear really short skirts, etc; but with my man I'll be naked as much as I can. I agree, it comes with time and just accepting yourself - and a partner who accepts you too. But as someone else mentioned, some people are just more modest in general. Whatever works for you!
08/04/2011
Anjulie Anjulie
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Originally posted by extrafun
I luv being naked all of the time
Same here.
08/04/2011
ThoughtsAblaze ThoughtsAblaze
Before sex, I'm always so nervous about being naked. Once the deed is done, though, I'm comfortable in my skin for the time being and like to stay in bed and sleep naked. He, on the other hand, always retrieves his underwear when we're finished.
08/04/2011
EJ EJ
We're comfortable being naked with one another after sex, but we've been together for 10+ years. If I were with someone new though, there would probably be an adjustment phase.
08/04/2011
Waterfall Waterfall
It depends on the partner. I am more comfortable being naked with a partner who I am in a relationship with and some of my friends with benefits. I have also had partners who don't like being naked (except while having sex) and then I don't want to be the one who is naked while they are fully clothed.
08/04/2011
RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by newfoundlust
Not unusual when you are young and single. On the other extreme, we are both about to turn 50, and have been married for 24 years. We thoroughly enjoy being naked with each other afterward for a while. Neither of us is young, or thin, but we love ... More
Well said! I agree absolutely.
08/04/2011
emiliaa emiliaa
Sometimes. I'm usually pretty comfortable with being naked but I kind of like the feeling of being all wrapped up in stuff, blankets mostly. ^_^ and my skin is all sticky so cuddling isn't actually that comfortable unless there's some kind of cloth in between XD
08/04/2011
married with children married with children
yes, I am happy with my body.
08/05/2011
js250 js250
Quote:
Originally posted by briluminary
I'm a timid person and always feel a bit shy after having sex with my boyfriend and don't really prefer to just sit around naked and like to conceal myself, I don't dislike my body but just feel so awkward being undressed when we're not hooking up.
I feel this way sometimes and we have been together 14 years! I do wear lingerie when we have sex, that has really helped!!!!
08/05/2011
bayosgirl bayosgirl
I feel comfortable around my husband, so I don't mind.
08/05/2011
aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
i sleep totally naked, he sleeps with his boxers on almost always, unless we have sex before we go to sleep. i hang out in my apartment naked alot too so if we're there and i havent put on clothes for the day (which i dont until im heading out) i'm naked.

i only have momentary hangups about my body. i could obsess over freckles, moles, pale skin and tiny tits but. i dont. fuck it all. i'm beautiful. he thinks so too and tells me every day.

08/05/2011
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