I'm a timid person and always feel a bit shy after having sex with my boyfriend and don't really prefer to just sit around naked and like to conceal myself, I don't dislike my body but just feel so awkward being undressed when we're not hooking up.
Do You Feel Comfortable Being Naked After Sex?
I've worked to become comfortable with my body. I like to lie around after sex naked, or even fall asleep with no clothes on. Although I do sleep better with at least panties on. We have kids, so I can't walk around nude, but I do like to lie there happily without having to do anything or search for my panties and clothes for a while.
I often tease My Man when I get up, still nude and say, "This is what I'm wearing today!" after morning sex. It's an old joke, but he still laughs every time.
The more time you spend in the buff the more comfortable you'll be.
I often tease My Man when I get up, still nude and say, "This is what I'm wearing today!" after morning sex. It's an old joke, but he still laughs every time.
The more time you spend in the buff the more comfortable you'll be.
08/04/2011
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Not unusual when you are young and single. On the other extreme, we are both about to turn 50, and have been married for 24 years. We thoroughly enjoy being naked with each other afterward for a while. Neither of us is young, or thin, but we love the intimacy of it.
Originally posted by
briluminary
I'm a timid person and always feel a bit shy after having sex with my boyfriend and don't really prefer to just sit around naked and like to conceal myself, I don't dislike my body but just feel so awkward being undressed when we're not hooking up.
08/04/2011
I agree with P'Gell and newfoundlust on this one. When you are younger and in a relationship this is normal.
However, with long term commitment and age(at least in my experience) you grow to accept your body and embrace the things you cannot change. From this acceptance, comes comfort and contentment (both, of which I speak, are a positive things in this regard).
We have been married 18 years and are completely comfortable with nudity around each other. There are days we do not wear any clothes at all. Both of us are lugging a few extra pounds we'd rather not, but we appreciate the comfort and closeness we share when we are in the nude state after we make love or otherwise.
We have a standing rule in our bed...there are no clothes allowed in/on it!
However, with long term commitment and age(at least in my experience) you grow to accept your body and embrace the things you cannot change. From this acceptance, comes comfort and contentment (both, of which I speak, are a positive things in this regard).
We have been married 18 years and are completely comfortable with nudity around each other. There are days we do not wear any clothes at all. Both of us are lugging a few extra pounds we'd rather not, but we appreciate the comfort and closeness we share when we are in the nude state after we make love or otherwise.
We have a standing rule in our bed...there are no clothes allowed in/on it!
08/04/2011
I've been with my husband most of my adult life, so being naked around him feels as natural as being naked when I'm alone. I agree with the ones above who said it's something that comes with time and trust. However, I think some people are modest and some not so much. Cover up until you feel like you don't need to
08/04/2011
I enjoy being naked, period. Being naked together after sex is the most natural thing in the world for us. We lie around naked chatting, flirting, laughing, maybe eating/drinking... sometimes it'll lead to another round, but even if it doesn't it just feels so intimate and special. I'm modest around other people, don't like to show cleavage, don't like to wear really short skirts, etc; but with my man I'll be naked as much as I can. I agree, it comes with time and just accepting yourself - and a partner who accepts you too. But as someone else mentioned, some people are just more modest in general. Whatever works for you!
08/04/2011
It depends on the partner. I am more comfortable being naked with a partner who I am in a relationship with and some of my friends with benefits. I have also had partners who don't like being naked (except while having sex) and then I don't want to be the one who is naked while they are fully clothed.
08/04/2011
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Well said! I agree absolutely.
Originally posted by
newfoundlust
Not unusual when you are young and single. On the other extreme, we are both about to turn 50, and have been married for 24 years. We thoroughly enjoy being naked with each other afterward for a while. Neither of us is young, or thin, but we love
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Not unusual when you are young and single. On the other extreme, we are both about to turn 50, and have been married for 24 years. We thoroughly enjoy being naked with each other afterward for a while. Neither of us is young, or thin, but we love the intimacy of it.
08/04/2011
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I feel this way sometimes and we have been together 14 years! I do wear lingerie when we have sex, that has really helped!!!!
Originally posted by
briluminary
I'm a timid person and always feel a bit shy after having sex with my boyfriend and don't really prefer to just sit around naked and like to conceal myself, I don't dislike my body but just feel so awkward being undressed when we're not hooking up.
08/05/2011
i sleep totally naked, he sleeps with his boxers on almost always, unless we have sex before we go to sleep. i hang out in my apartment naked alot too so if we're there and i havent put on clothes for the day (which i dont until im heading out) i'm naked.
i only have momentary hangups about my body. i could obsess over freckles, moles, pale skin and tiny tits but. i dont. fuck it all. i'm beautiful. he thinks so too and tells me every day.
i only have momentary hangups about my body. i could obsess over freckles, moles, pale skin and tiny tits but. i dont. fuck it all. i'm beautiful. he thinks so too and tells me every day.
08/05/2011