Do you think ball gags are degrading?

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Do you think ball gags are degrading?

SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
Quote:
Originally posted by Jenn (aka kissmykitty)
As long as the play involving them is consensual and enjoyable by all involved parties, absolutely not.
This is how I feel about it.
05/27/2011
big b big b
not my thing.if its yours great
05/28/2011
ichigostrawberry ichigostrawberry
Only if the person doesn't want to use it. If it is consented then I don't think so.
05/30/2011
Miss Nessa Miss Nessa
They are nothing but fun to me.
06/11/2011
Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
i personally don't think so. but it does depend on the situation and kind of scene being acted out
09/14/2011
ijako9 ijako9
Nope just part of the fun
09/15/2011
XYCopperheadSly XYCopperheadSly
Yes, and that's what makes it a turn on.
09/25/2011
mizzmilla mizzmilla
I'm not really into it
09/25/2011
samanthalynn samanthalynn
Quote:
Originally posted by socceras
not something i would want to try but want to know what others think
nope
03/03/2012
Anastasia Beaverhousen Anastasia Beaverhousen
I don't particularly like ball gags. Just don't like the way they look.
03/14/2012
queergaze queergaze
Depends on the play. While we engage in quite a lot of kinky activity, my partner and I aren't into humiliation at all, so if I wore a gag it would be to have something to bite down on and keep me quiet when there are other people in the house. If it looks hot, too, that's great
04/12/2012
abbylover abbylover
i have one in the mail
04/16/2012
Undead Undead
Not for us but it's no one else's business what you do in the bedroom!
04/16/2012
gloomybear gloomybear
if its ur fetish its not degrading for instance i find it hot but if i didnt and my bf wanted it i could see how a woman might find it degrading
04/17/2012
Chami Chami
i dont think so i have never had one but i would like to get one
05/10/2012
comatose-kitty comatose-kitty
Yes, and that's why i love them
05/10/2012
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I think if you and your partner are both in agreement about adding it to your play, than no, it's not. If it's something that you're being forced to use, than it could be...but I don't think it is in general as long as everyone involved agrees
05/10/2012
Life's Little Secrets Life's Little Secrets
I agree if you and your partner are in agreement then no it's not degrading. I believe that it helps to add spice in the relationship, it is something different. Me and my SO have both talked about it and agree that I like it but it just isn't her thing.
05/10/2012
pinkpottergirl pinkpottergirl
I said both yes and no, because I like the way it is degrading
07/07/2012
Missmarc Missmarc
They are degrading but that's a part of SM.
07/07/2012
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
They are degrading, and they're meant to be that way I think - it's part of the fetish/kink.
07/07/2012
g- g-
As a screamer I would say not...but it also depends on the partner!
07/07/2012
Feisty Feisty
i dont care for ball gags but i dont think they are degrading
07/07/2012
Lavendar Lavendar
I think it depends on the situation
07/07/2012
MK434 MK434
Yes I have a Aslan Leather ball gag and I love it.
07/08/2012
Peggi Peggi
They can be used that way, but the way we use them is not degrading. I actually use mine because quite honestly, I'm too loud and also I have a bad habit of biting if I'm getting too into it, and sometimes I leave pretty bad marks. Hubby doesn't mind the marks, but I hate to bruise him up too much
07/08/2012
sexykiss sexykiss
dont think id try it
07/08/2012
konicaguy konicaguy
Quote:
Originally posted by socceras
not something i would want to try but want to know what others think
Just not our thing...
07/10/2012
Bowen Bowen
I think it depends on the gag but usually no.
07/10/2012
Zandrock Zandrock
Depends on your term of degrading. Actually degrading I don't think so. Degrading within the scene or "play degrading" then yes. If it is consensual then nothing is degrading, it is just you and your partner enjoying yourself.
07/17/2012
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