Do you think ball gags are degrading?

Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
A little bit, but it's part of the appeal.
05/27/2011
Contributor: SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
Quote:
Originally posted by Jenn (aka kissmykitty)
As long as the play involving them is consensual and enjoyable by all involved parties, absolutely not.
This is how I feel about it.
05/27/2011
Contributor: big b big b
not my thing.if its yours great
05/28/2011
Contributor: ichigostrawberry ichigostrawberry
Only if the person doesn't want to use it. If it is consented then I don't think so.
05/30/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
They are nothing but fun to me.
06/11/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
i personally don't think so. but it does depend on the situation and kind of scene being acted out
09/14/2011
Contributor: averageguyextrodinarypleasure averageguyextrodinarypleasure
Nope just part of the fun
09/15/2011
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
Yes, and that's what makes it a turn on.
09/25/2011
Contributor: mizzmilla mizzmilla
I'm not really into it
09/25/2011
Contributor: samanthalynn samanthalynn
Quote:
Originally posted by socceras
not something i would want to try but want to know what others think
nope
03/03/2012
Contributor: Anastasia Beaverhousen Anastasia Beaverhousen
I don't particularly like ball gags. Just don't like the way they look.
03/14/2012
Contributor: queergaze queergaze
Depends on the play. While we engage in quite a lot of kinky activity, my partner and I aren't into humiliation at all, so if I wore a gag it would be to have something to bite down on and keep me quiet when there are other people in the house. If it looks hot, too, that's great
04/12/2012
Contributor: AbbyLover AbbyLover
i have one in the mail
04/16/2012
Contributor: Undead Undead
Not for us but it's no one else's business what you do in the bedroom!
04/16/2012
Contributor: gloomybear gloomybear
if its ur fetish its not degrading for instance i find it hot but if i didnt and my bf wanted it i could see how a woman might find it degrading
04/17/2012
Contributor: Chami Chami
i dont think so i have never had one but i would like to get one
05/10/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
Yes, and that's why i love them
05/10/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I think if you and your partner are both in agreement about adding it to your play, than no, it's not. If it's something that you're being forced to use, than it could be...but I don't think it is in general as long as everyone involved agrees
05/10/2012
Contributor: Life's Little Secrets Life's Little Secrets
I agree if you and your partner are in agreement then no it's not degrading. I believe that it helps to add spice in the relationship, it is something different. Me and my SO have both talked about it and agree that I like it but it just isn't her thing.
05/10/2012
Contributor: pinkpottergirl pinkpottergirl
I said both yes and no, because I like the way it is degrading
07/07/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
They are degrading but that's a part of SM.
07/07/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
They are degrading, and they're meant to be that way I think - it's part of the fetish/kink.
07/07/2012
Contributor: g- g-
As a screamer I would say not...but it also depends on the partner!
07/07/2012
Contributor: Feisty Feisty
i dont care for ball gags but i dont think they are degrading
07/07/2012
Contributor: Lavendar Lavendar
I think it depends on the situation
07/07/2012
Contributor: MK434 MK434
Yes I have a Aslan Leather ball gag and I love it.
07/08/2012
Contributor: Peggi Peggi
They can be used that way, but the way we use them is not degrading. I actually use mine because quite honestly, I'm too loud and also I have a bad habit of biting if I'm getting too into it, and sometimes I leave pretty bad marks. Hubby doesn't mind the marks, but I hate to bruise him up too much
07/08/2012
Contributor: sexykiss sexykiss
dont think id try it
07/08/2012
Contributor: konicaguy konicaguy
Quote:
Originally posted by socceras
not something i would want to try but want to know what others think
Just not our thing...
07/10/2012
Contributor: Bowen Bowen
I think it depends on the gag but usually no.
07/10/2012