Rough and dirty. Romance is nice but we've been together so long that romance comes from a different place and it's not inside the bedroom. It's the little things like when he cleans the kitchen without me hinting or asking after I've had a long day/night. Or picking up each other's favorite guilty pleasure from the store just to show we are thinking of each other.
I like to mix it up...all depending on the mood. So I voted for all three. I would really like more role play but hubby just cannot get into it.
I wouldn't call it dirty but she likes it when I get a little 'rough'. It's more so when I just sorta take control that I notice she gets giggly and grabby. I really like it when she gets romatically slutty. Not like just totally after my cock but really lets me know she's horny the way she touches me.
I voted for all four. Variety is my cup of tea! I sometimes like a good snuggle as part of foreplay. Other times i like when my partner begins to takes the lead and initiates foreplay (even though that's not really foreplay).
For me, I need lots of stimulation. Nothing too laid back. So cuddling is out. That's for the couch . I want the rough passion with the nails dragging down the body and the teeth nipping here and there Mmmm hmmm.....that's a good start .