Come back after infedility?

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babychika babychika
Has anyone experienced cheating in their long term relationship/marriage? How did you 2 come back from it? What do you do to spice it up or turn it back on? More interestingly, did you use toys to aid you?
01/23/2012
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Ghost Ghost
I have experienced cheating once and I dealt with it by promptly dumping my boyfriend and getting on with me life.
01/24/2012
Jul!a Jul!a
I haven't personally dealt with it in a long term relationship, but my husband had handled it with exes by just shutting himself down emotionally and knowing that any potential for an actual future with that person (marriage, kids, etc) would never happen. He'd just stick around and try to avoid any talk of the future since it was easier most of the time to just shut down and avoid the fighting.
01/24/2012
Tangerine Tangerine
I have never experienced cheating, but I have experienced an almost cheating sitution paired with lying and sneaking around... In that situation I tried and tried to get over it, but the trust had been broken either way. I had to move on. Once my trust was gone so was the foundation. I had to shut my emotions off completely which in turn made me ask myself " If you dont trust this person and now you have non emotional attachment why are you here"

I have since moved on into another relationship
01/24/2012
Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
I actually wrote an article about this on EdenCafe- if you're interested in reading it, it may help you gain insight. Cheating, in a broad sense, is tough. It really depends on the situation of both partners.
01/24/2012
babychika babychika
Thanks for your article. I have not experienced it, but i was just wondering how those that have got over it and what did they "use" to do so...
01/25/2012
KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
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Originally posted by babychika
Has anyone experienced cheating in their long term relationship/marriage? How did you 2 come back from it? What do you do to spice it up or turn it back on? More interestingly, did you use toys to aid you?
I did have such an experience once...it was never the same again so I broke up with the guy (he was the cheater, and a notorious one at that, so I sort of didn't even feel bad about it).
01/25/2012
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