Do you and your significant other have the same sexual appetites?

Munko Munko
Do you both generally like the same type of sex and sex acts most of the time, or do you prefer mostly different things and have to compromise? How do you make sure everyone is happy all the time?
04/03/2013
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Mrs.Hellzapoppin Mrs.Hellzapoppin
Fortunately, Mr.Hellzapoppin and I have pretty much the same appetites. Occasionally, I'll get some weird request, which I am usually up for.
04/03/2013
gsfanatic gsfanatic
Yep, which is quite convenient. It helps that she's willing to try things if I suggest them
04/03/2013
indiglo indiglo
We are generally on the same page with that kind of stuff. When we aren't we work it out in a way that works for both of us.
04/03/2013
SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
Sadly we are complete opposites sexually. He is very vanilla while I am very kinky and into BDSM and fetish. Compromise is something that we are constantly working at. We try to meet somewhere in the middle but it can be hard given that he actually turned off by even light BDSM and fetish and I find it a turn off if he is not comfortable with something.
Mostly our key to making this work is communication and honesty. Both of us were up front and honest from the very beginning so it was not a shock about the sexual incompatibility.
Our sex drives are also drastically different with me having the higher one. Masturbation comes in handy with that one. hence my nice collection of toys.
04/04/2013
Ciao. Ciao.
We are definitely not the same in terms of our sexual interests/appetites, but we make it work. It might be nice if we were but our relationship is really great in so many other ways.
04/04/2013
srexom srexom
basically we're pretty much the same
04/04/2013
The Vixen The Vixen
Luckily, my partner and I are pretty much on the same page, so we don't run into conflicts very often.
04/05/2013
Chilipepper Chilipepper
Yes, although I want more D/s and it simply doesn't interest him. I can live with it, although I ask for at least an occasional hair pull or spanking.
04/05/2013
Liberalqueer Liberalqueer
Yes! We talk about what we like, to see if the other likes it or will help to make the other one have their fantasy. Like if I want something, he'll do it, and then later if he wants something I'll do it. We both have our limits, but so far they're very much the same
04/08/2013
Silverwinds Silverwinds
I'm pretty happy about this: My boyfriend and I have the exact same level of libid, we get horny at the same time, we share a lot of the same kinks, it's pretty great. My previous boyfriend didn't like sex or physical contact, aside from handholding, and I have a high sex drive, so that relationship was doomed the moment it began. I'm pretty happy with my current situation.
04/08/2013
mpfm mpfm
We mesh pretty well thankfully.
04/08/2013
friendswithfangs friendswithfangs
Nah, I'm a very sexual person and she's on the asexual end of the spectrum. This obviously causes some frustration, but we're both willing to make little sacrifices to make it work.
05/08/2013
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