I'm in a great relationship for almost four year, I love her, I just hate marriage. In my experience, it's only something you do to avoid dying alone and will eventually destroy your spirit and soul (I realize this is an uncommon/unpopular opinion regarding marriage). I feel like she wants me to propose and I know her friends and family want me to propose. Where she's from, people propose after dating for six months, so they're wondering, but I never want to get married or have kids. For people in long term relationships, or married couples, did you ever feel pressured to propose?