Ex-wife still text??? WTF!?!?

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Ex-wife still text??? WTF!?!?

southernhawtie southernhawtie
OK, so I am curious, should I be upset that my Boy friends Ex-Wife, whom he has no children with, still text him. She sends naughty little forwards and such. So in your opinion is it ok for her to send him naughty forwards or should this be a huge no no??
12/04/2010
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Sir Sir
I would think that this would be a big NO. Saying hello and talking is one thing, but naughty pictures or words is another, and is not acceptable. But in all honesty, it depends on how you feel about the situation. If you do not like it, then have a talk with your partner. If you do not mind it, then don't worry about it.
12/04/2010
Kayla Kayla
Sounds like a bit of an odd thing for an ex-wife to do, and I personally would be like "wtf", but I'd be much more concerned if your boyfriend is responding to them. If he's not, just let her fascination die for him, but if he's responding naughty things back, that's where you should be concerned.
12/04/2010
Porfiriato Porfiriato
I think it's all about his response to these texts, and if he's tried to get her to stop. Did he tell you about these texts, or try to hide it?
12/04/2010
Alicia Alicia
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Originally posted by southernhawtie
OK, so I am curious, should I be upset that my Boy friends Ex-Wife, whom he has no children with, still text him. She sends naughty little forwards and such. So in your opinion is it ok for her to send him naughty forwards or should this be a huge no ...
I suppose in very rare circumstances it could be normal...but like in 99.99999% of cases I'd say that's odd behavior. But, like Mistress Kay said..I would be much more concerned if he was responding to them! If they don't have kids though, and he doesn't care for the texts..I'd have him just block her. Unless there is some reason why they need to still communicate- I can't think of what but maybe any kind of joint property, debts, etc.- I'd say just block her and be done with it.
12/04/2010
Envy Envy
I agree with what's been said. Perhaps you need to sit and talk with your bf about this and voice your concerns in a civil matter.
12/04/2010
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Originally posted by southernhawtie
OK, so I am curious, should I be upset that my Boy friends Ex-Wife, whom he has no children with, still text him. She sends naughty little forwards and such. So in your opinion is it ok for her to send him naughty forwards or should this be a huge no ...
That's a HUGE HELL NO!
12/06/2010
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by southernhawtie
OK, so I am curious, should I be upset that my Boy friends Ex-Wife, whom he has no children with, still text him. She sends naughty little forwards and such. So in your opinion is it ok for her to send him naughty forwards or should this be a huge no ...
Are you willing to be in an open relationship where this sort of play would be acceptible? If you are choosing to be monogamous as a couple then it is not appropriate.
12/06/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
It depends. From what you said, she is just sending him spam chain texts.
12/06/2010
cherryredhead88 cherryredhead88
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
It depends. From what you said, she is just sending him spam chain texts.
Seems like spamming follows this person....
12/06/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Can you just talk to your boyfriend and ask him what he thinks? He's on here right?
12/06/2010
cherryredhead88 cherryredhead88
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
Can you just talk to your boyfriend and ask him what he thinks? He's on here right?
Supposedly he is, hmmm wonder why he hasn't seen this already since he is only following her and no one else... and he is on here commenting on other's reviews quite rudely... hmmm...
12/06/2010
Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by cherryredhead88
Supposedly he is, hmmm wonder why he hasn't seen this already since he is only following her and no one else... and he is on here commenting on other's reviews quite rudely... hmmm...
Oh man...
12/06/2010
Harlequin Harlequin
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Originally posted by southernhawtie
OK, so I am curious, should I be upset that my Boy friends Ex-Wife, whom he has no children with, still text him. She sends naughty little forwards and such. So in your opinion is it ok for her to send him naughty forwards or should this be a huge no ...
thats absolutely inapropriate!
12/10/2010
mariah mariah
you have every right to be angry
12/10/2010
kittychilla kittychilla
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Originally posted by Sir
I would think that this would be a big NO. Saying hello and talking is one thing, but naughty pictures or words is another, and is not acceptable. But in all honesty, it depends on how you feel about the situation. If you do not like it, then have a ...
^ i agree completly.
01/06/2011
guard083 guard083
That's a big no. If she was talking or just saying hey that's ok but there is a reason she is an ex and she shouldn't be sending naughty messages to him. I would sit and talk to him and voice your opinions and tell him how you feel about this situation
01/12/2011
Cream in the Cupcake Cream in the Cupcake
absolutley NOT! Im curious why he never brought it up to you before. What type of messages are they? Jokes or a tempting message?
02/07/2011
ninaspinkturtle ninaspinkturtle
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Originally posted by southernhawtie
OK, so I am curious, should I be upset that my Boy friends Ex-Wife, whom he has no children with, still text him. She sends naughty little forwards and such. So in your opinion is it ok for her to send him naughty forwards or should this be a huge no ...
naughty forwards wouldnt be a problem for me...but if they were texting alot i would be upset too
02/07/2011
slynch slynch
My ex-wife keeps sending me a Facebook friend request. lol
03/13/2011
aBeastlyLittleThing aBeastlyLittleThing
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Originally posted by southernhawtie
OK, so I am curious, should I be upset that my Boy friends Ex-Wife, whom he has no children with, still text him. She sends naughty little forwards and such. So in your opinion is it ok for her to send him naughty forwards or should this be a huge no ...
if they're just chatting, or if she's just forwarding things she thinks is funny, that happen to be naughty, it's not that big of a deal to me. if they're texting about more-than-freinds-thin gs, or if she's sending him naughty things/pics purposefully, with intentions of getting him to like her or whatever, then it's very bad. so it all depends on the details, really.
03/14/2011
aBeastlyLittleThing aBeastlyLittleThing
Quote:
Originally posted by southernhawtie
OK, so I am curious, should I be upset that my Boy friends Ex-Wife, whom he has no children with, still text him. She sends naughty little forwards and such. So in your opinion is it ok for her to send him naughty forwards or should this be a huge no ...
if they're just chatting, or if she's just forwarding things she thinks is funny, that happen to be naughty, it's not that big of a deal to me. if they're texting about more-than-freinds-thin gs, or if she's sending him naughty things/pics purposefully, with intentions of getting him to like her or whatever, then it's very bad. so it all depends on the details, really.
03/14/2011
Ansley Ansley
A discussion with your partner should be had to find out her motivation and his view on the situation. From there, a compromise should be reached that both find acceptable. If the texts continue after that, more action needs to be taken.
03/14/2011
K101 K101
Hell no! Nothing good can ever come from being that close with an ex while being in a relationship. Even if nothing does happen, it's disrespectful to you and it's something that shouldn't happen. You shouldn't pur yourself in situations like that when you love someone. I'd be having one hell of a talk with him
05/11/2011
slynch slynch
I have 2 teen daughters with my ex-wife.

In the last 2 weeks she's sent at least 17 texts to my current wife complaining about the kids behavior.
05/11/2011
froggiemoma froggiemoma
no , not ok i would be a little angry
05/11/2011
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