This guy is a fuckin loser (excuse my language, but I am enraged over this). Any peice of shit who would talk to you that way/treat you that way is going to die a very lonely man. I hate assholes like that. And If I were you, I probably would have given him a peice of my mind to the point that he'd be running away cause Id have fire comin from my ears and mouth like a dragon. This type of shit pisses me off@
He spent $500 to tell me I'm fat and I should lose weight.
10/01/2011
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I think there is a difference between being mean and being honest.
Originally posted by
Nissa Nissa
I love that but I'm the same way. I can't be mean to anyone even if they kinda deserve it.
10/01/2011
Wow. Wow. Wow. Just forget him. x_x
10/02/2011
Yeah. Not gonna see him again. He still wants to make things right but each time I talk to him about it he ends up saying the same things about my weight.
I need someone nice.. He was fine with my body the first few days other than the first day making a "chunky" comment.. i guess that should have tipped me off.
I need someone nice.. He was fine with my body the first few days other than the first day making a "chunky" comment.. i guess that should have tipped me off.
10/02/2011
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I remember reading this on an article.. "why to date a curvy girl" someone commented "the only guys who want a skinny girl are the ones with small penises so theirs will look bigger in comparison. lol
Originally posted by
NavyDoll87
Tell him the only reason you look chunky is because his penis is too small. Get rid of that douchebag.
10/02/2011
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Why are you even still talking to him? D:
Originally posted by
Nissa Nissa
Yeah. Not gonna see him again. He still wants to make things right but each time I talk to him about it he ends up saying the same things about my weight.
I need someone nice.. He was fine with my body the first few days other than the first ... more
I need someone nice.. He was fine with my body the first few days other than the first ... more
Yeah. Not gonna see him again. He still wants to make things right but each time I talk to him about it he ends up saying the same things about my weight.
I need someone nice.. He was fine with my body the first few days other than the first day making a "chunky" comment.. i guess that should have tipped me off. less
I need someone nice.. He was fine with my body the first few days other than the first day making a "chunky" comment.. i guess that should have tipped me off. less
10/02/2011
Wow, what a colossal prick! You really deserve better than him, and I'm so sorry that his hurtful comments and shallow thinking hurt you so much. The fact that he pretty much ignores your medical condition is down right unforgivable. I know it hurts, hell, I'm still hurting over a relationship that ended almost six years ago, but time will make it hurt slightly less. It's just so hard these days to find a decent companion that isn't so damn vain. I wish you the best, hun! *HUGS*
10/02/2011
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If he wants to talk about weight with you, then that shouldn't be problem. But how he went about it was just downright mean! His lacking communication skills is sad.
Originally posted by
Breas
I think there is a difference between being mean and being honest.
As for losing faith in humanity... I'm sure you will feel that way for days to come because it's just inevitable after heartache. But I hope you get back on your feet ASAP and start looking again for a nice chap. I'm 25 and have forever been obese (I've been an 18/20 size for years now), so I'd often times start thinking that because I'm fat, I'll never find a man. My boyfriend has since proven that wrong. We have had conversations about very personal things, such as about weight and my lack of flexibility perhaps affecting our sex life, but it's a kind, adult conversation that we have as a couple, not one of us calling out the other.
10/02/2011
Ignore him~ what an ass!!! No matter what he says no that you are beautiful and one day you will find someone who thinks you are beautiful!
10/02/2011
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No when I said there is a different between being mean and being honest it was to response to OP when she said "even if he deserves it, i dont want to be mean"... so I was basically saying, you dont have to be mean, just be honest
Originally posted by
ThoughtsAblaze
If he wants to talk about weight with you, then that shouldn't be problem. But how he went about it was just downright mean! His lacking communication skills is sad.
As for losing faith in humanity... I'm sure you will feel that way ... more
As for losing faith in humanity... I'm sure you will feel that way ... more
If he wants to talk about weight with you, then that shouldn't be problem. But how he went about it was just downright mean! His lacking communication skills is sad.
As for losing faith in humanity... I'm sure you will feel that way for days to come because it's just inevitable after heartache. But I hope you get back on your feet ASAP and start looking again for a nice chap. I'm 25 and have forever been obese (I've been an 18/20 size for years now), so I'd often times start thinking that because I'm fat, I'll never find a man. My boyfriend has since proven that wrong. We have had conversations about very personal things, such as about weight and my lack of flexibility perhaps affecting our sex life, but it's a kind, adult conversation that we have as a couple, not one of us calling out the other. less
As for losing faith in humanity... I'm sure you will feel that way for days to come because it's just inevitable after heartache. But I hope you get back on your feet ASAP and start looking again for a nice chap. I'm 25 and have forever been obese (I've been an 18/20 size for years now), so I'd often times start thinking that because I'm fat, I'll never find a man. My boyfriend has since proven that wrong. We have had conversations about very personal things, such as about weight and my lack of flexibility perhaps affecting our sex life, but it's a kind, adult conversation that we have as a couple, not one of us calling out the other. less
10/02/2011
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Sorry to hear this happened to you. Fuck em and forget about him. You deserve so much better. There are men in this world like me that appreciate curves on a woman.
Originally posted by
Nissa Nissa
My long distance came down.. we were having fun.. cuddled.. kissed.. went to see the sights.. by the third day he had already called me chunky. Today he came out with saying he doesn't think he wants to be with me anymore and that i should
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My long distance came down.. we were having fun.. cuddled.. kissed.. went to see the sights.. by the third day he had already called me chunky. Today he came out with saying he doesn't think he wants to be with me anymore and that i should "lose some weight" and that i have "chunky arms".
I'm losing faith in humanity. My heart is in pieces on the floor.. I didn't think I could ever be treated in this manner. less
I'm losing faith in humanity. My heart is in pieces on the floor.. I didn't think I could ever be treated in this manner. less
I wish you the best of luck in this situation and hope that you find happiness in life.
10/02/2011
Day late and a dollar short, but I would have kicked his butt out and let him spend even more money on a place to stay for the remainder of his trip. What a jerk!
10/02/2011
What a jerk! Really, that is not the kind of man you want in your life!
I know it hurts now, but you are better off without him.
What a jerk!
I know it hurts now, but you are better off without him.
What a jerk!
10/02/2011
Last night hubby and son called me on Skype and I mentioned what happened and asked them (as men) what they thought.
They both said, "Dump him...don't even have him spend the night". My son said, "That was a douche thing for him to do".
Just thought I'd share what a couple of guys had to say about what he did...
They both said, "Dump him...don't even have him spend the night". My son said, "That was a douche thing for him to do".
Just thought I'd share what a couple of guys had to say about what he did...
10/02/2011
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Yeah my male cousin wants to kick his ass and the same with a couple of my guy friends. He's back up where he belongs now so I can put everything behind me and do as suggested. Love myself and honor myself before I even worry about finding someone to fill the void..
Originally posted by
Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
Last night hubby and son called me on Skype and I mentioned what happened and asked them (as men) what they thought.
They both said, "Dump him...don't even have him spend the night". My son said, "That was a douche thing ... more
They both said, "Dump him...don't even have him spend the night". My son said, "That was a douche thing ... more
Last night hubby and son called me on Skype and I mentioned what happened and asked them (as men) what they thought.
They both said, "Dump him...don't even have him spend the night". My son said, "That was a douche thing for him to do".
Just thought I'd share what a couple of guys had to say about what he did... less
They both said, "Dump him...don't even have him spend the night". My son said, "That was a douche thing for him to do".
Just thought I'd share what a couple of guys had to say about what he did... less
Toys shall fill the void for now :x muahaha hehe
10/02/2011
I'm sorry you had to deal with that asshat
Look at it this way, he's out all that money and he's not gonna keep you down, so joke's on him. You're much better off without him and I'm glad he's gone.
Look at it this way, he's out all that money and he's not gonna keep you down, so joke's on him. You're much better off without him and I'm glad he's gone.
10/03/2011
That's horrible. I'm so sorry.
He sounds like a real douche canoe.
He sounds like a real douche canoe.
10/05/2011
Lose the loser. You're beautiful and don't let anyone tell you any different. There's noone on this earth that is perfect. Don't let his words get you down.
10/05/2011
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