How secret is your past?

link82 link82
Does your current partner know everything about your past sexual/ emotional relationships?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Our pasts have been discussed and I am 100% open and honest about mine.
100  (55%)
Our pasts have been discussed and I only shared what I felt was necessary - keeping some things for myself.
64  (35%)
Our past have never been discussed and I hope they never are.
2  (1%)
It's never been brought up but I would be 100% open and honest about mine.
3  (2%)
It's never been brought up but I would share what I felt was necessary - keeping some things for myself.
9  (5%)
Other (please explain)
5  (3%)
Total votes: 183
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Sebmissive Sebmissive
I have only been sexual with one other person (my ex-gf), and my bf knows about everything I did with her. The three of us even fooled around a few times while I was still dating my girl.
DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
I share a lot with my lovers, more than 'what was necessary' but certainly not everything.
tickle me pink tickle me pink
We were each others firsts for just about everything, so as far as past relationships were concerned there wasn't much to discuss. But with everything else we try to be as open and honest as possible. He even knows about a lot of crushes I had while I was in middle/high school, including a few that no one else knows about.
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
After so many years together there is very little that we do not know about each others past. I can only think of two or three things she does not know about mine and that is because she has not asked.
SamsDelight SamsDelight
I wanted to be totally honest with my husband. No secrets. That way I never had to worry about one day him finding out something and feeling I hid something from him. I was a bad party girl and he was married to his high school girlfriend. So big difference in experience.
Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
I am totally honest with my girlfriend. She knows everything and this has been the most rewarding relationship I've been in.
NuMe NuMe
After being together about 33 years, I don't think there's anything we don't know about each other.
MaryExy MaryExy
We've only briefly/occasionally discussed past relationships. Usually it just comes up when we're discussing trying something with each other, and we compare experience levels. I wouldn't have a problem being 100% open, though.
Kdlips Kdlips
MY boyfriend know all a about my past
PunkyB PunkyB
I think its just easier to get it all out there. I have had experinces where people said that they didnt know and didnt care, but when the found out actually did care. I dont want to relive that experience so i just put it out there now
indiglo indiglo
Yes he knows all of it. Maybe more than he wants to, LOL. I think it's important because what we've been through shapes who we are. Some issues both of us have are due to past relationships gone wrong, etc. so I think it's important to know that stuff so you can know where your partner is coming from when those issues come up.
Lady Venus Lady Venus
We discuss our pasts as the subject comes up. If it doesn't come up, no reason to speak of it.
Coralbell Coralbell
He knows most of it, but not every detail. I would tell him if he asked though.
Sammi Sammi
We know everything about each other - we've never seen a reason not to be honest and open about it.
BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
My past about relationships? Mostly, yes... I don't think I've recanted the details of every liaison I've ever had, but, then, I'm not sure I could regale anyone with that... I don't remember a lot.
married with children married with children
honesty is the key. They will find out anyway, some where down the road. And it will do more damage then. So just be honest from day one, it will make your relationship stronger for it.
Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
We both know each other's past. And we keep finding out more and more about each other too, lol.
bunny love bunny love
I don't like talking about the guy I was with before my boyfriend. He was a jerk, and I'd rather not think about him. My boyfriend knows this and is very understanding. It's never been a problem for us.
Originally posted by link82
Does your current partner know everything about your past sexual/ emotional relationships?
I think he does at least everything that is worth knowing
barrettbn2 barrettbn2
I only share what is necessary
purplekidney purplekidney
She: I wasn't completely honest for a while about the girl I was with because I was still in the closet. But now he's officially in the know.

He: Maybe if I had more to hide, I'd feel differently. I only kissed one other girl.

She: Aawwwww
ayepapi! ayepapi!
i haven't told everything little thing to my boyfriend, but if he asked about it i would tell him.
nicole07 nicole07
We are honest about everything
Naughty Student Naughty Student
My guy knows the skeleton's I hide in my closet and he has never made me feel bad about them. I'm pretty happy with our open and honest relationship.
kawigrl kawigrl
not every detail but sharing
Linga Linga
I can't lie. I've never been able too, not even as a kid. So 100% honesty is my only choice.
froggiemoma froggiemoma
he doesnt know every detail but if he asked i would tell
extrafun extrafun
we have talked a little about our past, but there is one thing I will never share with anyone.
PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
We both know everything about each other's pasts. It wasn't too substantial though.
Total posts: 101
Unique posters: 99