How long have you and your significant other gone without fighting?

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How long have you and your significant other gone without fighting?

ss143 ss143
I know every couple has their problems and arguments but I also know some more or less than others. Bf and I in the beginning had an argument once in a while then for a couple of years we fought constantly now we just noticed we haven't had one fight or argument in over two years. So we were curious how long was the longest you never fought?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
What you can have a relationship and not fight
3  (4%)
couple days
7  (9%)
couple weeks
10  (13%)
couple months
36  (46%)
couple years
4  (5%)
few years or more
7  (9%)
Fight whats that
8  (10%)
of course other
3  (4%)
Total votes: 78
Poll is closed
06/30/2011
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ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Probably been about five years since we had a good argument. Before that we had one at least once a year or so.

Most of them are 'day' arguments, that is, the next day wee work it all out and all is well.
06/30/2011
MaryExy MaryExy
We haven't been together long enough to say a couple of years...
06/30/2011
lovemuscle n cookie lovemuscle n cookie
we usually go a couple of months
06/30/2011
tickle me pink tickle me pink
We have arguments all the time, but they are never completely serious and are over within a few minutes. I think it's been a few months since we last had a more serious fight.
06/30/2011
js250 js250
Quote:
Originally posted by ss143
I know every couple has their problems and arguments but I also know some more or less than others. Bf and I in the beginning had an argument once in a while then for a couple of years we fought constantly now we just noticed we haven't had one ...
Still arguing every few days to couple of weeks.Outside stress.
06/30/2011
aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
depends on what you call a 'fight'. if a full out pissed off for more than 30 minutes fight, we've had like 3 in our 8 months. we have little one sided arguments daily. usually me getting pissed at him and only looking for some kind of consolation. 'im sorry' usually clears it up fast.


06/30/2011
Sammi Sammi
It does depend on what you mean by fight. I think real, drag-out fights, maybe 2 in the past 20 years? We have little squabbles, but we really don't fight much at all. I'd call them disagreements, and even those are infrequent.
06/30/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
We haven't had a fight (significant one anyway...you know the ones lasting days/weeks on end) in about 15 years. We have arguments/disagreement s that last a few hours, every now and then, but no fighting anymore. We have become better communicators in the last 18 years. Thank God!
06/30/2011
indiglo indiglo
Yeah, I wouldn't say we have real fights either. We have disagreements sometimes, or one will do something that hurts the other one, but we try to resolve them as quickly as possible so they don't turn into fights. We don't raise our voices, and my man is very quick to accept his part in things, sometimes quicker than I am, which I need to work on. Neither of us has any shame in apologizing, so we try to do that quickly too. A sincere apology after realizing how what you did hurt the other person works wonders!
07/01/2011
teeny <3 teeny <3
We have lots of little fights and most of the time the boyfriend just forgets they ever existed. It's cute and annoying.
07/01/2011
onehotmomma onehotmomma
couple weeks probably. However, it has been years since any "big" fights. Now the fighting is more geared towards the kids...such as, "I told him no! You can't undermind me!" or, "You said YOU would make the appt. so I didn't worry about it" Things like that.. Nothing serious!
07/01/2011
SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by ss143
I know every couple has their problems and arguments but I also know some more or less than others. Bf and I in the beginning had an argument once in a while then for a couple of years we fought constantly now we just noticed we haven't had one ...
been a few months now
07/01/2011
ss143 ss143
Thank you everyone for sharing
As for definition of a fight its what you consider a fight not necessarily the usual disagreements of like whos turn it is to take out the trash
07/01/2011
KrazyKandy KrazyKandy
I only had one big fight 2 years ago and no big deal since then
07/01/2011
Ansley Ansley
I believe arguing is a sign of a healthy and involved relationship. Out and out fighting is a different story but it's a necessary evil sometimes.
07/01/2011
Maeby Maeby
I'd say we usually go a couple months. Funnily enough, we had a fight last night.
07/01/2011
BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
The longest we go is a couple of weeks, but it's been a long time since we've gone that long.
07/01/2011
GravyCakes GravyCakes
my bf & i have really only had maybe 1 fight, not even major. in the past 3 yrs, the most we really have are disagreements or a few minor arguments that we both get over in about a day.
07/01/2011
Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
We just recently had our second fight in the eight years that we've been together. It has left me all out of sorts.
07/01/2011
married with children married with children
we dont fight, she just gets upset because we do not agree on the same things all the time.
07/02/2011
ac0313 ac0313
We haven't had a fight since we started 6 months ago and we do not think we will have a fight. Instead, we discuss any issues or concerns rationally, and never raise our voices and attack the other.
07/02/2011
MJ1337 MJ1337
I don't consider fickle misunderstandings/argu ments, "fights".
07/02/2011
Cedarlooman Cedarlooman
We don't really ever have a "fight". I think we have had one in 14 years where we have raised our voices. There are arguments and disagreements, of course. I think she classifies when she gets mad at me for something to be a fight, but I really don't. (The sex after the discussions though, I call make-up sex... ) I have never liked fighting and really don't like arguments that are civil, even. If she is angry about something, I tend to keep a low profile and keep things even keel until she is ready to talk about it. I know a lot of people though that consider arguments/disagreement s to be fights.
07/02/2011
DexterStratton DexterStratton
Yeah, we haven't had what I would call a fight. I've fucked up from time to time, but we manage to resolve everything without getting mean to each other.
07/02/2011
Rain. Rain.
We fight every few weeks
07/03/2011
Destri Destri
We actually have only had 2 fights in almost 7 years. We just don't have much of anything to fight about. If we disagree about something, we work it out. But that doesn't even happen much, we are extremely similar and well-suited to one another. I consider myself very blessed to be with him.
07/03/2011
redstarr681 redstarr681
we argue just about every day
07/03/2011
M.H1 M.H1
Well we argue almost everyday....
he gets irritaded very easily...
07/04/2011
KsPlaything KsPlaything
We're so great together that it's insane! I love that man....
07/07/2011
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