How do you know he's the one? I've been pondering lately because my current bf and I have been together for 4 months now and our last relationship we both dated the person for 3 years. I'm wondering how long it must take before you know the person is right for you. I'm a little concerned because my bf once said to me that he thinks it takes 4 years to get to know someone but I have a feeling he judged that based on his last relationship and because it lasted 3 years and wasn't what he wanted he thinks it takes that long to know, where as I'm not really sure. I really feel that I could be with him forever and I don't want it to take 3-4 years if he is the right one. Just wondering what people's thoughts are?