moving for your partner?

Modern^Spank^Anthem Modern^Spank^Anthem
would you or have you moved?
02/06/2011
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VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
I'd move for my partner. We're actually going to start looking for jobs up where he lives for me since I'm graduating in May
02/07/2011
NaturalWoman NaturalWoman
I have not moved for my partner but I have NOT moved for her and ended up staying here after meeting her when I was originally planning on leaving
02/07/2011
Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
My guy moved from West Virginia to Wisconsin when we got together.

I'm glad he did it. I don't know if I could have done the same and I'd have missed out on... so very much.
02/07/2011
liilii080 liilii080
I moved. It was terrifying to quit my job and leave family and a well established life. It's working well and it was the absolute right decision for us. We're doing great and talking about marriage.
02/07/2011
seaofneptune seaofneptune
I'd move for my partner and may be in the future. He has kind of moved for me as well so I'd do the same for him.
02/07/2011
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by Modern^Spank^Anthem
would you or have you moved?
If it would be mutually beneficial then sure I'd move to be with them...or for them.
02/07/2011
Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
I had to move to Memphis for my husband's job before. It was short term, but still I had to leave four of my kids with my ex so I could go there with him. I didn't want to, but really didn't have a choice. We're back in LA now, but it's possible it may have to happen again in the future. So yea, I have and I would.
02/07/2011
newlady newlady
Yes, I have moved for my hubby's job.
02/07/2011
Curves Curves
my 18 year old girlfriend moved from maine to new jersey to be with me. i love her with all my heart.
04/13/2011
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
If it would be mutually beneficial then sure I'd move to be with them...or for them.
We are actually planning to move to be closer to Arch so I guess my answer would be yup I would!
04/13/2011
kendra30752 kendra30752
OOOh! That's a hard one! I so love where we live. On a quiet, peaceful, mountain in a very small area. I love it and wouldn't want to ever leave! Also, I couldn't ever leave my family. Thankfully, we both live on the same mountain and never plan to leave. I couldn't let him move away from me, but I also couldn't leave this place. I guess I'd have to ask him to not move Selfish, but I just couldn't live anywhere else.
04/13/2011
MaryExy MaryExy
My guy and I met after I had bound myself to a school kinda far away from him. For medical/graduate school I'm definitely considering schools close to him, at least within a 1-3 hour drive, so weekend visits are possible. I live in Tennessee, he lives in Florida. It wouldn't be too shabby of a location change! Probably should start researching that actually...
04/13/2011
UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
I have moved. Only about three hours from where I grew up, so not too bad.
04/13/2011
ID42 ID42
I moved home to be with my best friend's brother after the death of their Father. She couldn't deal with being here anymore and lived 17 hours from home already. She was worried about him and knew I hated where I was living anyway, and it seemed like the perfect solution, a friend and roommate for him and no guilt over having to leave for her. A year and three months after moving to be with him, we got married and have been together ever since. We have been through 5 moves so far.
04/14/2011
darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
I would move to stay with him. He has talked about moving to New York to be with his family, and if that was something he really wanted, I'd do it, even though it would mean my family would be pretty far away.
04/14/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
If I felt he could be 'the one', then yes!
04/14/2011
joja joja
Honestly, I don't think I would. Relationships tend to be temporary, whereas things like education tend to stick around. Imagine if I chose a grad school based on where my fiance lived, and we ended up breaking up 5 years down the road? It would change my entire career.

However, if he happened to live in one of my dream cities (Portland, Seattle, San Fran) it'd be a no-brainer.
04/14/2011
Taylor Taylor
I'm pretty sure I would after I fisished with school and I felt that the guy was worth moving for. I haven't had much success with long distance relationships so it's probably better to move in that situation (at least for me).
04/14/2011
tickle me pink tickle me pink
Twice, actually. We started in a long distance relationship and lived about 1000 miles away from each other, so as soon as I got the chance I moved in with him I did. Then just last year he got a promotion from his job that meant we would have to move out of state and I gladly went along. I was able to transfer my job as well so it was no big deal.
04/14/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by Modern^Spank^Anthem
would you or have you moved?
I have, more than once. I left a job when we bought a house which was too far from the City (Chicago) for me to drive to every day. He was making a boat load more money than I was and we didn't want to live too close to the city. So, I quit my job and we moved farther out into the burbs.

We've been together for more than 20 years, so I guess it worked.

And, in this terrible economy, if a couple loves each other and is dedicated to each other, and is willing to MAKE it work, moving to the place where one or the other can make the most bucks is almost a given in most adult relationships, in this day and age.

I certainly would give up almost anything, (except my kids) to be the man I love.

Love endures, corporations suck. I don't dedicate myself to Institutions or Corporate structures (as they are likely to screw you) but to people I love.
04/14/2011
FREE MR PERRY FREE MR PERRY
Quote:
Originally posted by Modern^Spank^Anthem
would you or have you moved?
yes
04/14/2011
cobiffle cobiffle
I wouldnt until we were really serious like enganged serious.
04/14/2011
El-Jaro El-Jaro
It looks like my roomie's BF is making plans to move in with us in August. I'm glad for a few reasons. He's a great guy AND it splits rent in 1/3's instead of 1/2's .

I've moved for a girlfriend, only short distances really. When my girlfriend moves for grad school or for her first adult real world job, I'm definitely going with her.
06/28/2011
lovemuscle n cookie lovemuscle n cookie
I would move for him, we almost did a few years back but the job fell through.
06/28/2011
Dawn (Lilac Distraction) Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
I've moved two, about to be three times for a partner. It was to end a long distance relationship and be a lot closer.
06/29/2011
KsPlaything KsPlaything
Definitely.
07/07/2011
lanky lanky
yes
07/07/2011
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