How many people believe sex is BEST saved for marriage?

I would NEVER marry someone I hadn't gotten to know very intimately. There's nothing magical about marriage that makes the sex better--it's a commitment that two people make and it changes the status of your relationship, but the sex is still sex. If you marry someone and find out that you are sexually incompatible, that's really difficult to fix. Some people think that you can change those things; but the truth is, everyone is different and you can't make them be any way you want them to be, and they can't change you into what they want, either. If one person is really kinky and the other person vanilla, or there's a massive difference in libido, or someone has a block when in comes to sex because of hang ups or issues they have, if there's even physical incompatibility...thos e are all really hard to change. Bad sex, unsatisfying sex, not enough sex (or too much sex for some people)--all that leads to is resentment and dissatisfaction with the relationship as a whole. Unless open marriages is a viable option, and not everyone can make that work, you're just taking too big of a risk by settling for someone you don't yet know, sexually.