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Many articles and studies state that the things that attracted us to our partner are also the things that, given time, will make us crazy! I have noticed this with my relationship, and wonder....what about you?
I have heard that too. It's interesting.
The things that attracted me to him right when I met him: I was 15 & he was kind, he hardly knew me & seen I was suffering pretty badly with a migraine & left, then came back and handed me a BC powder! Ha Ha. Lol. To this day, he still dumps those icky things into my mouth when I have migraines! It's definitely a sweet thing. It doesn't drive me crazy. Another thing that attracted me to him: he was the first guy I had ever been around that didn't force themselves on me, besides family and let's see 2 guy friends. Yea. I'm pretty sure there were only TWO who didn't. So me being in a position where he could've easily taken advantage of me and he wouldn't even put his hands on me (even when I asked! LOL) made me feel like something totally different. This was huge! It was so new to me. So that, especially after he'd gotten me a BC Powder, I figured he definitely expected sex or some kind of favor, and when he didn't, I was so intrigued. I think that changed something in me forever. I mean he was and still is the only male (besides family and very close guy friends) who went and without any reason, made a big effort to get me medicine for a migraine, then gave it to me & didn't really approach me anymore that night, except when a man (I was 15, the man was in his mid-twenties) tried following me into the bathroom, and my-now-partner stood up for me. In fact, the very next night, he had to do the same thing -- some guy putting his hands where they were not wanted. So pretty much it was like "omg! There is a guy out there who's kind and who hasn't even forced himself on me yet." This is a dream! Then of course, there's the charm and awesome looks.
Yea. None of that has gotten under my skin yet. LOL. His kindness and going out of his way for people just makes me love him even more. However,