Who introduced toys into your relationship, and when?

Munko Munko
I introduced toys quite quickly into our relationship, and it wasn't long before we were making purchases together. Recently talking with a friend, she's been with and living with the same man for over a year now and she's still too shy to introduce. Just wondering what seems to be typical!
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I introduced them early on
6  (24%)
I introduced them after we had been together long term
5  (20%)
My partner introduced them early on
2  (8%)
My partner introduced them after we had been together long term
4  (16%)
We discovered them together
4  (16%)
Toys are not part of our sexual relationship and only for me
Other
4  (16%)
Total votes: 25
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03/10/2013
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damnbul12 damnbul12
Quote:
Originally posted by Munko
I introduced toys quite quickly into our relationship, and it wasn't long before we were making purchases together. Recently talking with a friend, she's been with and living with the same man for over a year now and she's still too shy ... More
early on
03/10/2013
Toy Fiend Toy Fiend
Me and my partner discovered them together
03/11/2013
kendra30752 kendra30752
Quote:
Originally posted by Munko
I introduced toys quite quickly into our relationship, and it wasn't long before we were making purchases together. Recently talking with a friend, she's been with and living with the same man for over a year now and she's still too shy ... More
I said me because as I remembered, I'd bought a vibrator within like the first year of our dating, but thinking about it, I remember him using a mini bullet (so small it was a keychain!) on me once. So I guess it was originally him.
03/11/2013
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I introduced them after we were married for about 2-3 years.
03/11/2013
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Munko
I introduced toys quite quickly into our relationship, and it wasn't long before we were making purchases together. Recently talking with a friend, she's been with and living with the same man for over a year now and she's still too shy ... More
Sigel brought me home two toys...a large dildo I named "Bob" and a large white vibrator with a rubber G curve sleeve. We have been together for about 5-6 years at that point. He never really explained why he brought them home but he figured I might like them. Personally, I think he likes using them on me more than he likes to admit.

I introduced toys into sex play with Arch from almost the beginning of our relationship.
03/11/2013
Zombirella Zombirella
He did, after we had been together for awhile. I wasn't sure at first!
03/11/2013
BlooJay BlooJay
I brought it up after a year of dating.
03/11/2013
ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
We only got into them within the last year. I introduced them. We were wanting to successfully have anal sex so we picked up a toy at our local brick and mortar to help warm me up. It vibrated too and I ended up loving it on my clitoris.
03/11/2013
earthmama earthmama
I've only ever used a toy with a partner once, and that was last year. It didn't end up being that much fun, really. I tried to show him what I liked, and he got bored and fell asleep, so I just took care of it on my own. Typical... But will probably try again with someone new in the future.
03/12/2013
EmuLove EmuLove
we kind of discovered them together
03/12/2013
Lioncub Lioncub
My husband after we'd been married 5 or 6 years.
03/12/2013
Trysexual Trysexual
Oddly, she did early on, but now it's me doing all the shopping and toying.
03/14/2013
TJtheMadHatter TJtheMadHatter
I brought them out early on. We didn't really play with them together (it was 99% me), but lately I've been bringing them more and more out into the open. Since I've been talking in the forums, I'm much more comfortable telling my husband what I want/need.
03/14/2013
Total posts: 14
Unique posters: 14