Is it so wrong that I like women to look at my pictures. Im a male by the way.

extrafun extrafun
Is it wrong that I like it when women look at naked pictures of me. I am happily married man and have no intention of cheeting on my wife, but I do love to post naked pictures of my self and get feed back from other women. I dont show my face just my body. Please explain your answers. Thank you
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NO
18  (26%)
Yes
28  (41%)
Other
23  (33%)
Total votes: 69
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04/01/2011
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Pleasure Piratess Pleasure Piratess
Does your wife know? Does she mind?
04/01/2011
extrafun extrafun
Quote:
Originally posted by Pleasure Piratess
Does your wife know? Does she mind?
She knows i like to take the pics because I have sent/shown them to her she also knows I play on the net some but has never really said one way or the other. She does like to get my pics.
04/01/2011
Ansley Ansley
If your wife doesn't know, it could be a problem.

I'm currently examining my definitions of right and wrong and am hesitant to label your actions as either.

However, in my relationship this would be a red flag for me. If my husband needs attention from other women, there is clearly something missing and I'd want to know so I could rectify it.
04/01/2011
Ansley Ansley
Quote:
Originally posted by extrafun
She knows i like to take the pics because I have sent/shown them to her she also knows I play on the net some but has never really said one way or the other. She does like to get my pics.
Define "play on the net", please. That could mean online poker games to cybersex.

The question is, does she know you're posting these pictures to have your ego stroked by strangers?
04/01/2011
Kindred Kindred
I don't think it's a problem as long as your wife knows and is fine with it and that the people viewing your pictures don't know your identity, or you theirs.
04/01/2011
extrafun extrafun
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
Define "play on the net", please. That could mean online poker games to cybersex.



The question is, does she know you're posting these pictures to have your ego stroked by strangers?
She knows I have posted a few, and I dont think it is so much an ego thing as much as kind of taboo that makes it exciting. It seems much more acceptable for women to post pics of them selves, if my wife wanted to post pics of her self I would be ok with it. We are not showing our face either.
04/01/2011
sexyintexas sexyintexas
Quote:
Originally posted by extrafun
Is it wrong that I like it when women look at naked pictures of me. I am happily married man and have no intention of cheeting on my wife, but I do love to post naked pictures of my self and get feed back from other women. I dont show my face just my ... More
It depends on if your other knows about it and how they feel.
04/01/2011
extrafun extrafun
Quote:
Originally posted by sexyintexas
It depends on if your other knows about it and how they feel.
I think she likes it, she knows it excites me and she get to have the fun.
04/01/2011
Alyjazz Alyjazz
I don't think there's anything wrong with it. Especially since your not doing anything with these other woman. Sometimes it's nice to get positive feedback from other people.

For me, I've been with my man for ages and he tells me all the time how much he loves me/wants me/thinks im sexy, but to hear someone else say they find me desirable makes me feel extra good about myself.
04/01/2011
Jobthingy Jobthingy
If you tell her, sure. its fine. who cares.

But without her knowledge, it is asking for problems. I have seen stuff like that tear relationships apart
04/01/2011
SamsDelight SamsDelight
I agree with most other post. If she knows you are sending them than that is okay. From my view if my husband thought he had to hide it then that would tell me he is doing something wrong and knows it.
04/01/2011
Selective Sensualist Selective Sensualist
There are two criteria here that I feel should be satisfied before I could determine the "rightness or wrongness" of this situation.

First, I would say that as long as your wife is well aware of this activity and is fine with it, then the first criterion is satisfied.

Another consideration in determining whether this is right or wrong is how you go about posting the pictures of yourself. As long as you are posting your nude photos on a site where these types of photos are expected (so that someone who does not want to be exposed to such things will not stumble upon them accidentally), then the second criterion is satisfied. But if you are springing these types of photos on unsuspecting women, then it is akin to flashing/indecent exposure. Consent on all sides is important. In other words, if you consent to posting nude photos of your body, if your wife is okay with it, and if the women to whom you are showing the photos are willing to look at them, then who cares what anyone else thinks?
04/01/2011
extrafun extrafun
Quote:
Originally posted by Selective Sensualist
There are two criteria here that I feel should be satisfied before I could determine the "rightness or wrongness" of this situation.



First, I would say that as long as your wife is well aware of this activity and is fine with ... More
I have only posted them on sights where it is expected. I have do not want to affend anyone and yes the wife knows, she has taken some of the pics.
04/01/2011
PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
As long as it's not a secret, I feel that its perfectly fine.
04/01/2011
Kat Shanahan Kat Shanahan
If your wife knows (and by "knows", I mean, she not only takes the pics but is 100% fully aware that you post them online for others to see) and doesn't have a problem with it, then I guess it's fine.

I guess I'm just kind of wondering: if you like doing it, and you have no intentions of cheating on your wife, and your wife is okay with it...why do you need the validation of faceless people on an online forum? As long as you and your wife are both okay with it, what we think really doesn't matter.
04/01/2011
indiglo indiglo
I would not want my partner doing this. However, I voted "Other", because everyone draws a line in a different spot. If your wife knows 100% about it and is fine with it, then no it is not wrong. If your wife doesn't know 100% about it, or you feel you need to keep part of it secret, then it is wrong.
04/01/2011
bunny love bunny love
Quote:
Originally posted by extrafun
I have only posted them on sights where it is expected. I have do not want to affend anyone and yes the wife knows, she has taken some of the pics.
I don't see any problem with it then. As long as everything is consensual and your wife doesn't have a problem, then go for it!
04/01/2011
A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
Quote:
Originally posted by extrafun
I think she likes it, she knows it excites me and she get to have the fun.
It's great then!
04/01/2011
Cream in the Cupcake Cream in the Cupcake
Im not ganna vote. Its 33-33-33. LOL, but i think its fine
04/02/2011
Solar Ray Solar Ray
I'd say it's a decent ego-boosting exercise... but ya it could reach the level of being narcissistic as well.
04/03/2011
Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
Quote:
Originally posted by Jobthingy
If you tell her, sure. its fine. who cares.



But without her knowledge, it is asking for problems. I have seen stuff like that tear relationships apart
This.
04/03/2011
neon neon
she should know
04/04/2011
kendra30752 kendra30752
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
If your wife doesn't know, it could be a problem.



I'm currently examining my definitions of right and wrong and am hesitant to label your actions as either.



However, in my relationship this would be a red flag ... More
Well said. I feel the same way.
04/13/2011
eeep eeep
So long as your wife is ok with it, it is fine. Without her knowledge of it then there would be a problem.
11/28/2011
Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
it's sounds like you enjoy exhibitionism, which is totally fine. Everyone has their own kinks, and some get off knowing there are nude photos of themselves on the internet.
11/29/2011
Zandrock Zandrock
Nope. Who doesnt like some flattery
09/30/2012
Supervixen Supervixen
It's not wrong per se, but your wife might not be too happy about it. Or maybe she'd find it hot that other women are attracted to you and get to see you naked, but they can't have you like she can. I suppose I'd just be careful if I was you. If it's something your wife doesn't know about, she might get the wrong idea, and think that you are planning on cheating, especially if you keep it from her.
09/30/2012
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by extrafun
Is it wrong that I like it when women look at naked pictures of me. I am happily married man and have no intention of cheeting on my wife, but I do love to post naked pictures of my self and get feed back from other women. I dont show my face just my ... More
If she's aware and has said she is fine with it, no harm done
10/08/2012
glasskitten glasskitten
Quote:
Originally posted by extrafun
I think she likes it, she knows it excites me and she get to have the fun.
You -think- ? Do you not know? Have you explictly asked her opinion on the matter? Because she could be going along with it and keeping her lips sealed, even though it may be gnawing at her deep down somewhere.

You say she even takes some of the photos of you, but that may be for part of your personal playtime with her. She may not like you sharing that with other women.

Edit: And now I see that this is one old post! I'm only leaving my response here in case it helps someone in a similar situation... or something.
10/08/2012
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