A sub and a dom?

KcKay KcKay
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So I have been thinking, am I the only sub that wants more then one Dom? When it's comes to guy dominating me hotter then hell. But I love dominating a woman sub more then anything! Is it just me or it's more common then a think?

Would really like input please!
02/25/2012
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Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by KcKay
((Also posted under same title, in BDSM))


So I have been thinking, am I the only sub that wants more then one Dom? When it's comes to guy dominating me hotter then hell. But I love dominating a woman sub more then anything! Is it just ... More
I am sort of confused...are you saying that you would like to have a male Dom and a female Domme at the same time? Or that you are a switch hitter who likes to be dominated by a guy but who likes to dominate a female sub?
Either way I don't see a problem provided all the players know what's going on and are ok with the arrangement.

I have trust and control issues so the only person who has ever really been able to dominate me is Sigel. I am a very dominant personality and I Domme Arch but Sigel does not Dom for him. Complicated I know but it works for us.

I know quite a few people who actually have a lifepartner with whom they are monogamous and a Dom/me with whom they do not have sex. I also know quite a few subs who have more than one Master/Mistress and Doms ho have more than one seb. The latter seems to be more prevalent but both situations can work beautifully or end catastrophically.
02/25/2012
KcKay KcKay
I love being dominated by a male and Iove dominating a female. Just having one or the other it feels half assed. If that makes sense. I hope so cause to myself it doesn't. Even so it's difficult to find not so much as a female sub willing but men. They are more selfish and less unwilling to share. Thats more of my problem.
02/28/2012
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by KcKay
I love being dominated by a male and Iove dominating a female. Just having one or the other it feels half assed. If that makes sense. I hope so cause to myself it doesn't. Even so it's difficult to find not so much as a female sub willing but ... More
I know exactly what you mean! Sigel and I tend to trade power which feeds my need to submit when I need it. I find it next to impossible to submit to females, my natural desire is to dominate them. I have, on occassion taken it as a self challenge to find a woman who I was comfortable with and I learned a lot about the sub mind space and my own limits.
03/02/2012
badk1tty badk1tty
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Originally posted by KcKay
((Also posted under same title, in BDSM))


So I have been thinking, am I the only sub that wants more then one Dom? When it's comes to guy dominating me hotter then hell. But I love dominating a woman sub more then anything! Is it just ... More
I'm confused.
04/22/2012
thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
I'm a switch who's dating both a sub and a dom and I play with different roles with each of them, which is a lot of fun. I don't think there's anything particularly strange about your interests.
05/07/2012
kittenfacery kittenfacery
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Originally posted by KcKay
((Also posted under same title, in BDSM))


So I have been thinking, am I the only sub that wants more then one Dom? When it's comes to guy dominating me hotter then hell. But I love dominating a woman sub more then anything! Is it just ... More
I currently have 3 Doms . one of which i'm dating, the other two are my friends for whom i enjoy being a pet :3
so yes, totally natural - the more the better i say! :3
05/08/2012
XYCopperheadSly XYCopperheadSly
My Dom does not want me to have any other Doms...and I'm okay with this. I love being a sub, but I don't need to have a Dom/Sub relationship with all (or even more than one) of my partners.
05/15/2012
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