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Do you ever get jealous with sharing your other partner? Is a form of jealousy healthy in the relationship? How do you know your poly?
I am not poly amorous. But I am contributing because I guess I am one of the few that jealousy is a turn on for me. When I dated someone with lots of experience I would ask her all kinds of questions about her ex lovers (and there were many in the 70's).
I researched jealousy and swinging, there is an article out on that (those who continue to swing are generally less jealous than those who drop out).
When I first used a dildo with my wife, I was really jealous of it! This turn on fueled more sessions with it.
Anyways, I can't help you with the reality of jealousy and partner sharing. But I feel that the jealousy within our/my fantasy really fuels my passion!