Curious about poly-

lilacviolet lilacviolet
I don't know much about poly relationships. I'm currently in a monogamous relationship and I've always believed in being in a monogamous relationship but I'm curious to know a few things.

Something I'm curious about. Who here is in a poly relationship BECAUSE your boyfriend/husband doesn't want to have sex with you? I mean, has anyone here been in a monogamous relationship but your spouse/partner REFUSES to have sexual relations with you (because they lack any motivation or desire to be sexual with you :/ ) what if you found someone else while still being with your spouse and your spouse being okay about it?

I hope I make sense. Is anyone here in a relationship like that? Where your husband/wife/spouse just refuses any sexual relations with you in the relationship and they're okay with you finding someone else while still being in a relationship with them? Is anyone here in a similar relationship like that?
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Originally posted by lilacviolet
I don't know much about poly relationships. I'm currently in a monogamous relationship and I've always believed in being in a monogamous relationship but I'm curious to know a few things.

Something I'm curious about. Who ... More
This isn't an uncommon happening actually. Sometimes it's because of physical limitations, low sex drive, mixed sexual orientation or even asexual sexual orientation. The relationship is excellent except for the lack of sex. Sometimes the non-sexual partner will be willing to accept another person who can fulfill the sexual needs of their partner. Sometimes two people of opposite orientation get together and are compatible except in the bedroom. They may decide to open the relationship to meet both their needs.

If the couple is truly poly then the third or fourth partner is more than just a living sex doll. A stable loving relationship is quite attractive to a poly person who wants a relationship rather than just a sexual liaison.
04/04/2013
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