Question for Monogamous People

Contributor: mistressg mistressg
Any of these. I would say flirty touching could be a gray area depending on the person, but with the person I am with it would definitely be out of the ordinary if that happened, and therefore disconcerting.
04/22/2012
Contributor: 31 Flavors 31 Flavors
All of the above
04/22/2012
Contributor: powerandintent powerandintent
All of the above.
05/03/2012
Contributor: phozersexy phozersexy
All of them
05/03/2012
Contributor: Femme Mystique Femme Mystique
All of them.
05/08/2012
Contributor: twoods89 twoods89
Under normal circumstances I think it becomes cheating after it gets physical but some types of flirting can be considered cheating
05/23/2012
Contributor: Khanner Khanner
I checked all of the above except flirty touching. I'm not sure what it means cause I've never been touched or touched people while flirting.

I don't consider flirting itself to be cheating, though, because some actions can be up to interpretation. Until it goes from joking around to something more serious.
05/24/2012
Contributor: Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Quote:
Originally posted by SubmissiveFeminist
Which is these acts do you consider cheating if your partner were to do this with another person?
All of those would be considered cheating in my opinion, depending on who the person was.
05/24/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Sustained physical activity. Kissing is a grey area, and would depend on the culture you grew up in (some have kissing as a greeting)
05/24/2012
Contributor: BG529 BG529
I have to say all of the above... I'm a really jealous person and I can't help that it comes from my past. and he accepts that. and respects where we stand. and we make and awesome couple because he knews what happened in my past cause he was there. so, he doesn't want to see me hurt like that again.
05/24/2012
Contributor: Jaimes Jaimes
It would hurt my heart if my husband did any of those things with someone else, so that's cheating to me.
05/24/2012
Contributor: pasdechat pasdechat
Everything except maybe flirty touching--it depends on the motivation. Sometimes flirting is just fun, even if you're not attracted to the person/there's nothing meant by it.
05/24/2012
Contributor: sexystuffeve sexystuffeve
Quote:
Originally posted by SubmissiveFeminist
Which is these acts do you consider cheating if your partner were to do this with another person?
All of the above would be cheating, though some of them could be considered differently(like touching) it depends on what you mean by “touching” I mean if it a hug/handshake… or is it touching in an improper manner?
05/24/2012
Contributor: Tangles Tangles
Flirty touching isn't really a big deal to me. I mean, it can be annoying, but I don't really consider touching another person's hair or arm cheating.
06/09/2012
Contributor: rockblenny rockblenny
All of that is cheating.
06/09/2012
Contributor: Bodhi Bodhi
All of those things.
06/09/2012
Contributor: Lilith Bealove Lilith Bealove
All of the above but flirty touching. Flirty touching is just inappropriate behavior.
06/09/2012
Contributor: Dixiemomma Dixiemomma
If its not something he'd willingly tell me about its cheating, doesnt really matter what it was... luckily he feels same way so really not an issue
06/09/2012
Contributor: xMila xMila
All of the above
06/11/2012
Contributor: Sir Fapsalot Sir Fapsalot
Quote:
Originally posted by spiceboy
Going on a date is subject to interpretation. What is going on a date?
bump^
06/11/2012
Contributor: Sir Fapsalot Sir Fapsalot
Quote:
Originally posted by Hallmar82
Kissing is kind of a grey area. There are many different kinds of kisses at more or less romantic or lustful intensities. Flirting and touching is much the same way in my opinion too. However, both of those things are either really close to the ... more
I agree fully
06/11/2012
Contributor: Sir Fapsalot Sir Fapsalot
Quote:
Originally posted by spunkmonkey
All the above.
pretty much, yeah
06/11/2012
Contributor: Sir Fapsalot Sir Fapsalot
Quote:
Originally posted by underHim
All of the above I would consider cheating.
Agreed!
06/11/2012
Contributor: booboo111926 booboo111926
all of them
06/14/2012
Contributor: nori nori
same as the majority; everything but flirty touching.
06/16/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
Everything.
06/16/2012
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
In a monogamous relationship, pretty much all of the above.
06/22/2012
Contributor: EdenUser EdenUser
Well depends on what counts as flirty touching. The others are all cheating in my book just not sure about the flirty touching one.
06/24/2012
Contributor: Double Analysis Double Analysis
Quote:
Originally posted by WD40watcher
I consider all of those acts a form of cheating. I did not pick flirty touching however because its vague and depends on intentions I feel.
Agreed, voted the same way.
06/25/2012
Contributor: Cora Jane Cora Jane
All of the above.
06/26/2012