Do you fantasize about a former lover?

MrWood MrWood
I was just wondering how many of us fantasize about a former lover. Lately I've been doing it while with my current gf. Don't get me wrong, I have an amazing sex life with my gf, but I have one former lover that the sex side of our relationship was just mind blowing.

Do you think about someone in your past while having sex with your current partner? Please elaborate, I'm just curious if I'm the only one.

Thanks for your replies!
05/05/2013
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MrWood MrWood
I have a great sex life with my current gf, but I find myself dreaming about a former lover that was probably the best sex in my life. She just did things that were uninhibited so the speak, and we had no real boundaries when it came to sex. I guess I'm just missing some of the totally free sexual experimentation that we had. I don't miss her as a gf, lol, just the sex we had.
05/05/2013
Mwar Mwar
I fantasize a bit about an ex, but in reference to exhibitionism. I sometimes have dreams of him watching me have sex with my current partner.
05/05/2013
Oriental husband and wife Oriental husband and wife
No former lovers. Just co-workers.
05/05/2013
novanilla novanilla
ha, definitely not...so don't want to get back with those people even in a fantasy. Not because it was bad, but just...ick.
05/05/2013
MrWood MrWood
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Originally posted by novanilla
ha, definitely not...so don't want to get back with those people even in a fantasy. Not because it was bad, but just...ick.
lmao. Yea I know what you mean about the ick part. I have absolutely no desire to ever see them again, just miss the sex we had.
05/06/2013
Trysexual Trysexual
I do sometimes..or past experiences with different people.
05/06/2013
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I only had one partner aside from my husband now, and to think of him as a lover is just odd. We had sex, yes...but he never felt like my lover. I have zero attraction toward him and he has never come up in my sexual thoughts.
05/06/2013
padmeamidala padmeamidala
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Originally posted by MrWood
I was just wondering how many of us fantasize about a former lover. Lately I've been doing it while with my current gf. Don't get me wrong, I have an amazing sex life with my gf, but I have one former lover that the sex side of our ... More
I haven't fantasized about any former lovers in a while. I'm very happy with my Master and our sex life. A lot of my fantasies are about Him.
05/06/2013
SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
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Originally posted by MrWood
I have a great sex life with my current gf, but I find myself dreaming about a former lover that was probably the best sex in my life. She just did things that were uninhibited so the speak, and we had no real boundaries when it came to sex. I guess ... More
Same with me. An ex and I also had no real boundaries when it came to sexual experimentation with each other. He was wild, kinky and a great fuck because of that Would never go back to him, but I do sometimes fantasize about him.
05/06/2013
Zombirella Zombirella
Oh, no, and I'm glad!
05/07/2013
Gary Gary
No, I have never done that... that I am aware of.
05/07/2013
Real or memorex Real or memorex
Currently, no. I have done so in the past.
05/07/2013
Real or memorex Real or memorex
Currently, no. I have done so in the past.
05/07/2013
Love Bites Love Bites
I don't fantasize about my anyone.. The people are faceless in my mind. I don't miss any of my ex's for sex, either.

When I do catch myself thinking of an ex, it's usually one that I was best friends with, and it's not him I miss but the peace/comfort I felt while around him.
05/11/2013
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