Curious poll!
Have you ever felt ashamed or embarrassed of your fantasy?
10/17/2011
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I'm quite convinced that anything I think up is nothing to be ashamed of. Though sometimes I wonder what made me think such, I usually just enjoy it.
Fantasies are just that! Fantasies! - and in my opinion, very good for you :3.
Fantasizing is important I think.
Fantasies are just that! Fantasies! - and in my opinion, very good for you :3.
Fantasizing is important I think.
10/17/2011
When my wife and i first tried to milk my prostate. I Shivered the whole time i was just so nervous to introduce her to that side of me. Its not a fantasy any more i guess but at the time i would think about her doing it.
10/17/2011
I chose other because while I've never been ashamed of a fantasy I have, I have been ashamed that I allowed society's views to interfere with how I want to show my husband that I'm into him and care for him and his sexual well-being. I grew up in a very conservative lifestyle, so it was a little difficult to admit exactly what I wanted. I thought I would be made to feel terrible about myself or somehow the Sex Police would knock on my door.
I'm over it now. Thank Gods for that.
I'm over it now. Thank Gods for that.
10/17/2011
I'm not ashamed of anything I can think of. Stormy, I was brought up in a home where we didn't talk about sex at all so everything I've learned has come from friends or experience by trial/error.
10/17/2011
I have never been embarrassed or ashamed by my fantasies. I have been wierded out a few times by what has flashed through my mind while I have been fantasizing though. The only thing that gets me is that if I fantasize about someone I know, I don't feel like I have the body and/or the self confidence to go up to that person and at least attempt to make it a reality.
10/17/2011
A lot of my fantasies are taboo, and with that definitely comes the bouts of feeling ashamed. It has definitely changed my sex life. I realized that once you share those with a partner it deepens my bond with them. It lets them into a part of my life that I don't let many into.
10/18/2011
Certainly, I think that most people do for one reason or another.
10/18/2011
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Yeah, because everything was so hush-hush as soon as I got ahold of the internet at the ripe old age of 14, I busted that shit wide open and found everything I could possibly think of or that I had seen people mention. No one except for my spouse has ever told me "it's ok that you like that". And that's cool, I don't need someone to pat me on the back. It was just struggling with the "good girl" nature versus the "perverted real me" that made me think twice a couple of times. Now? My attitude is basically "fuck 'em if they can't take a joke". It's my life. My bedroom. It's all consentual and no one is underage...so stuff it. LOLOL Took me awhile though. I think until I actually hit 30, I still felt like a little girl whose mommy would pop out of the closet and shame me into oblivion.
Originally posted by
unfulfilled
I'm not ashamed of anything I can think of. Stormy, I was brought up in a home where we didn't talk about sex at all so everything I've learned has come from friends or experience by trial/error.
10/18/2011
Nope!
10/18/2011
not at all, they have all had my wife in them.
10/19/2011
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Im with married with children, If I had seen that reply I would have voted differently.
Originally posted by
married with children
not at all, they have all had my wife in them.
10/19/2011
*wince* Yes. 13. Spanish teacher. Confusion and shame.
10/19/2011
I have felt ashamed and embarrassed of a fantasy before, but my fiancee is so understanding that I have nothing to worry about!
10/19/2011
Yes, I used to feel really ashamed about most of my fantasies, and then I realized they are completely harmless and nothing to be embarrassed about. Everyone fantasizes, it's a healthy part of sexuality.
10/20/2011
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agreed.
Originally posted by
Love Perpetua
Yes, I used to feel really ashamed about most of my fantasies, and then I realized they are completely harmless and nothing to be embarrassed about. Everyone fantasizes, it's a healthy part of sexuality.
10/20/2011
I have felt embarrassed by all of my sexual fantasies. First, I was raised without anyone to talk about sex, and to this day, I have just one friend (married) and my boyfriend to talk to about fantasies. Second, my lack of sexual experience sometimes has me wondering if my fantasies might just be absurd. I have, however, started sharing just a few with my boyfriend and finding that they all turn him on, too. I'm starting to feel less embarrassed about them as I share more.
10/20/2011
When I was a certain age I was always embarasses / ashamed of my sexual fantasies. But after a certain age I realized it was only natural.
10/20/2011
Sadly, yes, although I feel better about them than I used to.
10/22/2011
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Its just a fantasy it is not real, not that I would not love to act out a few of them. but hey they are what we dream of..
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
Curious poll!
10/22/2011
I haven't had any I have been ashamed of, but some would be embarassing if other people knew of them.
10/22/2011
i do for sure
10/25/2011
Yes to both.
10/26/2011
Nope! To each his own.
12/02/2011
I think I have to say yes to both but the only way that would really happen would be if I shared them. I can think to myself wtf am I going on about but it's mine and no one else needs to know about it. I guess secrets may not be healthy but the fantasies are mine and I intend to remain selfish about some of them. I share ones with hubby that I want to live out or ones that I know won't have him thinking I'm a freak but others are just mine.
12/02/2011
Yes I have been embarrassed about my fantasies before. Sometimes they are extremely weird, such as turning into 3 different creatures in the same fantasy, and afterwards I am wondering to myself, what was I thinking???
12/08/2011
Depends on who I speak to about them. I only have oone friend that I will tell ANYTHING too
12/08/2011
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No here also
Originally posted by
Vanille
Nope!
12/08/2011
I have because of my conservative religious background
01/06/2012
My first sexual partner asked what I fantasized about and then left horrified. I didn't think wanting him to watch me fuck another chick was a bad thing, but I felt really bad at that point.
01/07/2012