If your spouse/lover asked if you would go to a swingers club would you go? If yes would you actually do a swap with another couple or just watch others have sex and not participate?

BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
Just wondering your option on swingers
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
No I am not going to a swingers meet
SneakersAndPearls , leanright69 , Hazeleyes2012 , padmeamidala , Haito , libbyv , AmethystQueen , Loriandhubby , edeneve , Taylor , JodiPrince , Beautiful-Disaster , Rossie , EvilHomer , BlooJay , Rory , Gluesnffr , ShadowedSeductress , nikki0668 , lilyflower , The Vixen , Gleb , LavenderSkies , Janene , pokefan15 , VeganChick (is Gone) , Oriental husband and wife
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Yes I would go to a swingers meet
raffi , doc , llellsee , Trysexual , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , rom323 , Bubba29 , Sammi , CaseyDeuce , Sera26 , bratcat , Eugler , turquoise
13
I would only watch others have sex
Msmueller , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , rom323 , A Good Girl , evie.amor , mfmtrios , Sammi , Sera26 , bratcat , dv8 , turquoise , SecretKinksters , Real or memorex
13
I would do a swap with another couple if possible
Lioncub , Bubba29 , CaseyDeuce , xnxxmax
4
Other (Just because it helps to have an other)
PeaceToTheMiddleEast , travelnurse , evie.amor , CaseyDeuce , Melan!e
5
Total votes: 62 (51 voters)
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03/20/2013
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SneakersAndPearls SneakersAndPearls
I don't give a flying flip about what others do, but it is not for me.
03/20/2013
raffi raffi
ok so here's the thing ... i like the idea of it ... i'm not sure if i would swap with another couple because i'm concerned about disease.

as far as emotional connections, i compartmentalize lol. my man however, doesn't. so there it is, i'm open to the idea but doubt it would happen.
03/20/2013
Lioncub Lioncub
We've been swinging for 10 years. It's not for everyone, we have seen couples break up over it. We've made great friends in and outside of the bedroom. For us it works. Not to say we do it all the time, every couple of months maybe.
03/20/2013
Hazeleyes2012 Hazeleyes2012
It's just not for me....
03/20/2013
llellsee llellsee
We have gone to swingers and fetish parties and while I have played with women at parties in front of him, I can't see us doing a full partner swap with a couple.
03/20/2013
Haito Haito
I simply can't seperate physical and emotional connections in a long-term relationship. I would never 'share' my fiance, nor would I ever want to be 'shared' with anyone else. I guess I'm an old fashioned traditionalist, but it's simply not for me. I take no issue with those who do enjoy it, though. Whatever makes you happy.
03/20/2013
libbyv libbyv
Quote:
Originally posted by BrittaniMaree
Just wondering your option on swingers
not for me
03/20/2013
AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
We're monogamous so.... I wouldn't go. Even if he asked me to. He'd never ask me though....
03/20/2013
Trysexual Trysexual
I'd go, but she would never ask. I went with my previous GF though.
03/20/2013
Msmueller Msmueller
we just recently had this discussion and we would be interested in going to watch and have fun ourselves but no full swapping
03/20/2013
PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I actually do go to a swingers club without my partner due to him being in another state but he knows I go with a friend of mine. We go mainly for dancing and watching but have never engaged in the activities. I asked him to go with me and he said he will. We have talked about letting another women join in but that is about it. We shall see when the time comes. I enjoy it though because the place we go to makes you feel welcome and there is a bunch of stuff to do there it is a lovely club.
03/20/2013
edeneve edeneve
I've already been asked by a couple that didn't appeal to me at all. I didn't go. if my lover asked me, I still wouldn't go. too much risk and just plain unappealing.
03/20/2013
Taylor Taylor
Not for me. I'd be way too jealous to consider this. I also wouldn't be interested in sleeping with someone I didn't know well
03/20/2013
Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
I would definitely NOT go.
03/20/2013
Rossie Rossie
No swinging for us...ever!
03/20/2013
travelnurse travelnurse
I dont see that happening.
03/20/2013
BlooJay BlooJay
I don't think I'd go.
03/20/2013
Rory Rory
No swinging for me!!
03/20/2013
Bubba29 Bubba29
Quote:
Originally posted by PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I actually do go to a swingers club without my partner due to him being in another state but he knows I go with a friend of mine. We go mainly for dancing and watching but have never engaged in the activities. I asked him to go with me and he said he ... More
i am curious about these places. is there full blown sex and swinging go on everywhere? or is full on sex less common? forgive me for seeming ignorant. i would assume there is sex goin' on but i have never actually read or heard anyone describe experiences at a swingers club.
03/20/2013
A Good Girl A Good Girl
We've discussed this in the past, and once I even let my husband "play" with my BFF, but I'm way to jealous to make it a regular thing. I might go to watch and flirt, but I don't think I could handle much more than that going on. We tried, not my cup of tea.
03/20/2013
evie.amor evie.amor
If I was with someone who I was not really emotionally attached to, yeah I could do it and not have an issue with swapping partners (as long as condoms were use, AND everyone was "clean" too) but I couldn't do it with my guy. On top of having slight possessive issues, our sex life in general is rocky to say the least, so I wouldn't feel comfortable sharing him.
03/20/2013
mfmtrios mfmtrios
It would be fun but a fantasy only. Maybe some day.
03/20/2013
PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
Quote:
Originally posted by Bubba29
i am curious about these places. is there full blown sex and swinging go on everywhere? or is full on sex less common? forgive me for seeming ignorant. i would assume there is sex goin' on but i have never actually read or heard anyone ... More
No one is allowed to touch anyone or take part in anything unless the people invite them. Like I said a lot go to dance or go in the hot tubs or jacuzzi. There are mostly groups of people who will come from all over and they have their little click. It is bring your own booze so you can loosen up a little bit.

What I like about the club too it is pretty pricy for couples and single men. Single ladies get a break. This is good because it keeps the people who think oh let me go in here and I can just screw anyone I want from coming in. They charge a lot. People do use protection. They have two floors in the club I go too one for VIP and one for none. There are different room settings. There are curtain codes as well if the curtain is open you can join in if it is closed then you can't. Same as the rooms with doors on them. The doors have little peep holes in them. You can always stand and watch which is fine. Like I said I have never participated but I have watched people engage. Every club is different and the one here in Ohio a lot of people come from all around each weekend to attend.

The club also keeps it fun with themes for each holiday. They also do Fetish Fridays and a party for Luscious ladies. I like to go for the themed parties a lot. Get all dressed up and dance the night away. They are open till 5 in the morning. I personally like it. Also like I said I would not do anything unless my boyfriend was there and it would probably only be with a women. That or just have people too watch.
03/20/2013
Gluesnffr Gluesnffr
No thanks.
03/20/2013
ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
Quote:
Originally posted by Haito
I simply can't seperate physical and emotional connections in a long-term relationship. I would never 'share' my fiance, nor would I ever want to be 'shared' with anyone else. I guess I'm an old fashioned traditionalist, but ... More
This is exactly how I feel.
03/20/2013
Zombirella Zombirella
I wouldn't want to go OR watch and I'd be extremely pissed off and offended if EVER asked. That's not my thing, I don't share MY man.
03/21/2013
Melan!e Melan!e
I answered other because my partner and I have already discussed this and he is not interested in it. We were sort of ambushed into a swingers party once and we didn't do a full swap. We only did what we were both comfortable with. After talking about it with my partner after that party we both decided that that lifestyle just isn't for us.
03/21/2013
The Vixen The Vixen
Quote:
Originally posted by Zombirella
I wouldn't want to go OR watch and I'd be extremely pissed off and offended if EVER asked. That's not my thing, I don't share MY man.
I agree, I couldn't do it. My husband doesn't like the idea so I know he'd never ask. If he ever did, I would be upset that he's even considering it.
03/21/2013
Gleb Gleb
No I am not going to a swingers meet
03/21/2013
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