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Contributor: yummyinmytummy yummyinmytummy
Do you think that these types of fantasies (either by men or women) are taboo and wrong or somehow anti-feminist or do you believe that a fantasy is a fantasy and can't be censored?
07/30/2012
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Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
No, I don't believe that it's wrong. Fantasy's are natural, and why should we censor them?
07/30/2012
Contributor: solitudinarian solitudinarian
I don't think they are wrong. In fact, I think trying to suppress thoughts/fantasies can be unhealthy. Rape fantasies are apparently really common in women anyway.
07/30/2012
Contributor: firekitten firekitten
I don't think this type of fantasy should be taken literally. Just because someone fantasizes about being dominated or even raped, doesn't mean they would welcome a true sexual assult. (True meaning non consensual)

Plus, part of the fun of the fantasy is that it is "taboo". It's the same reason off color jokes are so funny. It is so wrong it's funny. A rape/domination fantasy is so taboo it makes it even better. Same idea for a pegging fantasy, in my opinion.
07/30/2012
Contributor: Phosphorous Tick Phosphorous Tick
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Originally posted by firekitten
I don't think this type of fantasy should be taken literally. Just because someone fantasizes about being dominated or even raped, doesn't mean they would welcome a true sexual assult. (True meaning non consensual)

Plus, part of the ... more
Exactly this.

there is a line that can't be crossed between fantasy and reality. I had this discussion with someone at a Munch and he asked "If she has a rape fantasy- shouldn't I just take what I want from her? I mean it's a welcome invite" and I couldn't have gotten angrier. It wasn't me (mind you) with the rape fantasy but it's different if you're actually being raped as opposed to consensual non-consent.
07/31/2012