Thinking vs. Doing

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Thinking vs. Doing

lezergirl lezergirl
How many of your fantasies are things you'd actually like to do in real life?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I would do all my fantasies in real life
37  (23%)
I would only do some of my fantasies in real life
108  (68%)
I like my fantasies to stay in fantasy land
14  (9%)
Total votes: 159
Poll is closed
02/06/2011
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PussyGalore PussyGalore
Fantasy turned into a nightmare for me. I'm not willing to jeopardize my relationship again. We talk about having threesomes but when either of make the move to actually get someone over here, the mood in the room instantly changes. It's a lot of fun to talk about but we already know what happens when the reality goes south. It's best to leave it where it is right now.
02/06/2011
closed account closed account
I have some seriously kinky fantasies. I can be a real freak in real life. But way more in my head. It's not out of inhibition, its that some thoughts are to be left private or just as a conversation foreplay.
02/06/2011
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
I would do all but one in my current state of relationship.
02/06/2011
dhig dhig
Most of them, but some are just for mental kicks
02/06/2011
DONOTSHOPHERETHEOWNERISPSYCHO DONOTSHOPHERETHEOWNERISPSYCHO
Some fantasies are much better left as fantasies. They're not necessarily going to go the way you imagined and it could completely ruin things for you. For example, the couples recently written about on SexIs where the man 'accidentally' shot his wife or the man who strangled his partner. I don't have fantasies like that, but it seems to me that people weren't able to think as clearly when caught up in the heat of the moment and their fantasies turned into huge disasters. Then of course, you have things like threesomes where unexpected jealousy could ruin your relationship forever.
02/06/2011
BadassFatass BadassFatass
I would do most of mine but some of them just aren't a good idea.
02/06/2011
Rarity Rarity
Some fantasies will remain fantasies because thinking and doing are two separate things. I suppose we all have to draw the line somewhere.
02/06/2011
Waterfall Waterfall
I would do the majority of my fantasies. Maybe a couple of them wouldn't be the best idea at the moment.
02/06/2011
Woman China Woman China
When it comes to my sexual fantasies, it seems that once an idea is planted in my head... I want to do it. And I go about ways to make them a reality. So yes. I would love to do all my fantasies!!! Even the fantasy men!!!!!
02/06/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by lezergirl
How many of your fantasies are things you'd actually like to do in real life?
All of my fantasies are safe and sane, and I would only do them if they were consentual, so yes, I would do everything I want.
02/06/2011
Modern^Spank^Anthem Modern^Spank^Anthem
some fantasies are really only hot in my mind
02/06/2011
SexyStuff SexyStuff
Any fantasies that don't involve my husband will stay in fantasyland. any others are fair game!
02/07/2011
Harlot O Harlot O
Quote:
Originally posted by LavenderSkies
All of my fantasies are safe and sane, and I would only do them if they were consentual, so yes, I would do everything I want.
Agreed.
02/07/2011
Vaccinium Vaccinium
Most of my fantasies actually involve my wife, so when/if she agrees to them, I'd definitely do them. The one or two that don't involve her would involve getting her permission. Not that I plan on asking, but if she consented I'd consider going through with it.
02/07/2011
rdytogo rdytogo
Most would be great to act out except the ones that involve more than the 2 of us. Those will always remain a fantasy.
02/07/2011
Yoda Yoda
Some fantasies are damaging, and I wouldn't dare hurt the people I love for my own selfish gratification.
02/07/2011
toxie m toxie m
There are definitely a few fantasies of mine that I have no wish to ever play out in real life, ever.
02/07/2011
liilii080 liilii080
Some of them are worth leaving just as fantasy. That's part of why I enjoy them.
02/07/2011
Naughty Student Naughty Student
I would do most if not all my fantasies, my fantasies are actually pretty realistic for fantasies. Since my sex life is pretty standard, I'm constantly looking for simple things that really arouse me to add to our sex life. I just need a little more openness on my guys end, lol.
02/07/2011
gone77 gone77
My fantasies can be brutal, but I would like to try them out. There's maybe one I'm not sure I'd try, but you never know.
02/09/2011
C4ss C4ss
I would do most of them but not all. Some fantasies I think are better in my mind.
02/10/2011
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by lezergirl
How many of your fantasies are things you'd actually like to do in real life?
My fantasies are all very violent and would mostly be illegal so I'll be leaving them where they belong...in my head. If I have a lighter more positive desire I generally discuss it with my guys and we might try it but I don't really consider those fantasies more like suggestions.
02/10/2011
SexyTabby SexyTabby
Most of my fantasies aren't bad and can be realistic but Hubby isn't into some of the things I would like so it's a no go for me. Hubby actually offered to do one of them and we talked it all out first. But once it began he totally couldn't deal with it and it sucked terribly so yeah that one didn't happen but it'll remain with most in my fantasy land. I do think some others may eventually happen but not til Hubby is more interested.
02/12/2011
Kaltir Kaltir
I don't really fantasize about much. But I do daydream about what we'll do the next time, all the time;-)
02/13/2011
M121212 M121212
hehe... "I want to do more of my fantasies in real life"
02/21/2011
namelesschaos namelesschaos
I would try out most of them and most in the I wouldn't list, are less that I really wouldn't try them and more it is highly unlike that I could get all the right circumstance to line up to make it happen in a safe manner.
02/22/2011
TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
I'm pretty sure I'd do them.
02/22/2011
Happy Camper Happy Camper
Quote:
Originally posted by closed account
I have some seriously kinky fantasies. I can be a real freak in real life. But way more in my head. It's not out of inhibition, its that some thoughts are to be left private or just as a conversation foreplay.
Pretty similar story here.

I'm pretty sure if I fulfilled every fantasy my brain came up with I'd be in a psychiatric ward or dead. I fulfill a lot of my fantasies but I'm sane and risk-aware enough to realize that not every fantasy is meant to be fulfilled. Besides. Then they aren't really fantasies anymore.
02/22/2011
Gallowraven Gallowraven
I would do most of them, but some are best left in fantasy land, for obvious reasons. Like physical fitness limitations. And not being able to get circumstances to line up right. thus ruining the fantasy for me.
02/22/2011
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