Would you be upset if your partner molested you in your sleep?

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Would you be upset if your partner molested you in your sleep?

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Contributor: Emerlyn Emerlyn
Yes! They have no right D:<
05/14/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
I dont think there are many who wouldnt.
05/14/2012
Contributor: VelvetDragon VelvetDragon
Unless you have agreed to it FIRST ahead of time, this is assault, it is illegal, pure and simple.

I wouldn't mind my partner doing this IF we'd talked about it first (i.e. I gave a blanket permission for him to do that when I'm asleep, or "you can do that tonight", etc.). If he or she did it without my consent, it would be sexual assault and worthy of calling the police.
05/14/2012
Contributor: Chami Chami
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Originally posted by bayosgirl
Am I the only one who would not have a problem with this? I guess it might be different for me since I explicitly told my husband he is free to touch me whenever, whether I am sleeping or awake.
i agree here everyone else seems so weirded out by it but i told my man i would love for him to wake me up in a sexual manner...and most people think its ok(guys seem to think its awesome) to wake guys up in a sexual way so its kind of a double standard it seems
05/17/2012
Contributor: DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
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Originally posted by Sex Positivity
You are my new best friend. Perfect answer is perfect.
Ha, thanks
05/19/2012
Contributor: Mr. Tickle and Giggle Mr. Tickle and Giggle
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Originally posted by spineyogurt
Or is this normal to think about?
best thing in the world.
06/04/2012
Contributor: Bittenflame Bittenflame
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Originally posted by Annemarie
My significant other has actually told me that he might do this to me. It worried me a bit. I told him to wake me up, but that I might fall asleep. He said that he'd still keep going until he finished.

Not sure if this is normal either, ... more
Dump his ass
06/05/2012
Contributor: Bittenflame Bittenflame
I'd be extremely pissed. how is that concensual in any way?
06/05/2012
Contributor: lilgrump lilgrump
hahaha... my husband and I were hanging out *as friends* and I ended up sleeping over. I had kind of been hoping he would make a move on me, but he didn't. I tend to have some vivid sex dreams from time to time and had one that night... As the dream progressed, things started feeling very real and I woke up to his hand in my pants. Apparently he thought I could use a hand. It wasn't really creepy, it was actually pretty hot. And we've been an "item" ever since
06/05/2012
Contributor: Noelle Noelle
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Originally posted by spineyogurt
Or is this normal to think about?
I'd love it!!! He's my hubby and can have it ANYTIME he wants it. But the real question is....Would he be upset when I molest him every night??
07/07/2012
Contributor: Noelle Noelle
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Originally posted by bayosgirl
Am I the only one who would not have a problem with this? I guess it might be different for me since I explicitly told my husband he is free to touch me whenever, whether I am sleeping or awake.
I agree with you bayosgirl. I love him and my body is his too..
07/07/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
I like it when my partner wakes me up by sexytimes. I don't think that's molesting though.
07/08/2012
Contributor: Why Not? Why Not?
Upset?! I've asked for it, multiple times.
07/09/2012
Contributor: xilliannax xilliannax
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Originally posted by spineyogurt
Or is this normal to think about?
Nope, its kind of nice to wake up to. I do it to him some times too!
07/09/2012
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
On its own the word "molest" really only means to pester or interfere with someone so as to cause annoyance, so I imagine that anyone would be upset by their partner doing that while they were trying to have a peaceful night's sleep.

What I assume you actually intended to ask in your question is "Would you be upset if your partner touched you sexually while you were asleep?" and in that case my answer would be no. If I'm in a relationship with someone then I expect a level of intimacy where those sort of boundaries wouldn't exist.
07/09/2012
Contributor: mikeysPlace mikeysPlace
Heck no, I wouldn't be bothered! Are you kidding me?! LOL Molest me, please! She did in fact do this not long ago. I called her the Late Night Sex Attacker. Haha!
07/09/2012