Temptation and Marriage

Bittenflame Bittenflame
Do you ever feel tempted towards other people even while being married?
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Yes
1  (1%)
Yes, but it passes by quickly
9  (10%)
No, I only have eyes for my partner
22  (26%)
We're human. We all do
54  (63%)
Total votes: 86
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06/30/2012
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Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Bittenflame
Do you ever feel tempted towards other people even while being married?
Yes I do but we have allowed this in our marriage. I have partners that love to hear when I am attracted to someone else. Tempted? Not so much because it's not forbidden, I guess?
07/01/2012
carenautilus carenautilus
While my partner and I aren't married (not legal yet, boo), we're in an open relationship, so I don't see this being an issue.

But even if you're in monogamous relationship, it's okay to be attracted to other people. That's what sexual beings do. No shame.
07/01/2012
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I've never been tempted. I've been blessed with a very sexy man who keeps my eyes glued to him!
07/01/2012
unfulfilled unfulfilled
We're all human, I've been married 9 years and can recognize a great looking man but it's just that he's attractive doesn't mean I'd do anything about it.
07/01/2012
Chilipepper Chilipepper
I was all the time while married, but the marriage was celibate and had other numerous problems. Only once did I try acting on it ... and the ex-husband was so in tune to watching for it that he stopped me before anything happened. He still had the nerve to be surprised. -_-
07/01/2012
Peggi Peggi
Honestly, I could be in a room of shirtless men flirting with me and not even notice a thing. I'm not even kidding, he's all I think about and all I see. I guess just knowing that no man could EVER make me feel the way he does is why. It isn't intentional, and it hasn't happened with anyone previously which was fine since I used to be in a poly-relationship with others, but somehow, I just can't seem to see any other guy.
07/01/2012
All His All His
Quote:
Originally posted by unfulfilled
We're all human, I've been married 9 years and can recognize a great looking man but it's just that he's attractive doesn't mean I'd do anything about it.
I have been married 4years and like unfulfilled said I can recognize an attractive person but im not tempted
07/01/2012
Lady of the Lab Lady of the Lab
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
Yes I do but we have allowed this in our marriage. I have partners that love to hear when I am attracted to someone else. Tempted? Not so much because it's not forbidden, I guess?
Same here.
07/01/2012
Bullfroggy and Rose Bullfroggy and Rose
It's only human to look.
07/01/2012
- Kira - - Kira -
I need an "other" option. I'm bi and married to a male. Other males hold no attraction for me at all. When I met my husband, I stopped noticing guys. I can rarely even say "I guess he's attractive" because I just don't look for that. Girls, on the other hand, are a big temptation for me. I'm picky about what I find attractive, but when I see a pretty girl I can't help but look.
07/01/2012
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
We both know each other looks, and are completely ok with that.
07/01/2012
deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by Bittenflame
Do you ever feel tempted towards other people even while being married?
Congrats to those that aren't but even with my partner, I am attracted/tempted sometimes. I just don't act on it.
07/01/2012
SneakersAndPearls SneakersAndPearls
Notice that other people are charming or attractive? Yes. Tempted to stray from the hubby? Nope.
07/01/2012
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by Bittenflame
Do you ever feel tempted towards other people even while being married?
We're human. We all do
07/01/2012
Noelle Noelle
I was never 100% faithful to anyone I was with, until I met my husband. I would never dream of hurting him, and quite honestly, I don't notice other men much. I watch porn, but that's as far as it goes with looking at men for me. And really I am just looking at their "package" and could care less what they look like.
07/02/2012
sexykiss sexykiss
tempted to cheat or just look? i check people out all the time
07/03/2012
babycakess babycakess
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
Yes I do but we have allowed this in our marriage. I have partners that love to hear when I am attracted to someone else. Tempted? Not so much because it's not forbidden, I guess?
I agree. Its not forbidden here. I know he is attracted to others, and don't mind hearing it and vice versa.
07/04/2012
Mrs. Tickle and Giggle Mrs. Tickle and Giggle
Quote:
Originally posted by Bittenflame
Do you ever feel tempted towards other people even while being married?
No, but thats because my husband does things and keeps the features that i like prominent, so never a need to look elsewhere.
07/06/2012
Llahsram Llahsram
Whenever I have eyes for other people, it's usually because my wife pointed them out :p
07/06/2012
digit88 digit88
Quote:
Originally posted by Bittenflame
Do you ever feel tempted towards other people even while being married?
human
07/12/2012
konicaguy konicaguy
Quote:
Originally posted by Bittenflame
Do you ever feel tempted towards other people even while being married?
Sometimes there is just a natural attraction to another person, nothing really intentional.
07/19/2012
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Bittenflame
Do you ever feel tempted towards other people even while being married?
Of course a beautiful girl my seem "tempting" but I have too much respect for my spouse and too much invested in an amazing relationship...which leaves NOTHING sexual, sensual or otherwise, to be desired, to have more then a fleeting, hormone induced thought. I would NEVER and have NEVER been tempted beyond that, either.
08/04/2012
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
Of course you'll be tempested to think about someone else, but the most important thing is to not put yourself in a situation where you might act on it.
08/04/2012
woodsdragon woodsdragon
I think it is normal human behavior to have that feeling...but thinking and acting are two different things!! My fiance joke about my "tv boyfriend" as he calls him because I find a certain tv star attractive (my fiance has been told he looks like him though lol).
08/09/2012
EdenUser EdenUser
Just looking is human, cheating is not ok.
09/04/2012
itismedi itismedi
I would not be with my husband if I had eyes for someone other than him.
09/05/2012
Sangsara Sangsara
One day poly will be mine
09/09/2012
mbrdr2012 mbrdr2012
I can appreciate as nice looking man, however would I be tempted? NOPE. I have an amazing husband!
09/09/2012
Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
Tempted in a fantasy sort of way, yes. But we've both given each other the open option to dabble with others (we always talk about these things) and neither of us has acted on it yet. Some things are so much hotter in fantasies than reality.
09/09/2012
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