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PleasureNFantasy PleasureNFantasy
WHEN IS IT OK TO INVITE A 3RD PERSON INTO UR SEX LIFE, BEDROOM?
09/19/2010
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Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by PleasureNFantasy
WHEN IS IT OK TO INVITE A 3RD PERSON INTO UR SEX LIFE, BEDROOM?
Is this actually a serious question? With all the information available on this subject in the forums? *sigh*

It's ok to invite an third or more person(s) into your bedroom when you have a stable, loving relationship that is open to the possibility of inviting a third or more perso(s) into your bedroom. It is a dangerous thing to contemplate if you don't know how you will handle the way your relationship will change. You will have many confusing feelings crop up either just before the encounter, during or after. When you've gotten as much information as you can about the subject, you've talked to your partner about all the possibilities and set down boundaries and limits you MIGHT be ready to open your relationship to others.

There is a whole lot of information about this subject on these forums under the polyamory section. Sorry if this was a legitimate question, the caps lock and dildo, smirk makes it look like an attempt at a joke.
09/19/2010
PleasureNFantasy PleasureNFantasy
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
Is this actually a serious question? With all the information available on this subject in the forums? *sigh*

It's ok to invite an third or more person(s) into your bedroom when you have a stable, loving relationship that is open to the ...
It's okay! But yes this a legitimate question.
09/19/2010
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by PleasureNFantasy
It's okay! But yes this a legitimate question.
Are you wanting to open your relationship or just curious?
09/19/2010
PleasureNFantasy PleasureNFantasy
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
Are you wanting to open your relationship or just curious?
I've actually done this in the past. But I was just curious about what others thought.
09/19/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
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Originally posted by PleasureNFantasy
WHEN IS IT OK TO INVITE A 3RD PERSON INTO UR SEX LIFE, BEDROOM?
NEVER.
09/19/2010
VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
It's alright to invite another into the bedroom when you're both ready. It's not alright to use improper grammar.
09/19/2010
BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
NEVER.
I agree with Lauren. As much as I fantasize about this, it does change the dynamic of your relationship and you run a very real risk of one or both partners harboring resentment. If you're not willing to let go of the relationship, you should probably not do this.
11/01/2010
Harlequin Harlequin
never. thats gross!
12/11/2010
clp clp
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Originally posted by Harlequin
never. thats gross!
Why is it gross?
That's not nice. You can disagree without bashing others...
12/11/2010
J's Alley J's Alley
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Originally posted by Harlequin
never. thats gross!
Not really, maybe for you it is...

The right time would be when you're really ready. I would take to hear what Airen says...she would be the one I would trust on this here at EF.

I have a friend who has been considering it for a while, but she and her husband just can't decide if they can handle it (or her really...jealousy can be sneaky). They are making the right choice by waiting. If you have a doubt, you're likely not there yet. It also depends on what your partner wants.
12/11/2010
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
NEVER.
I would have to agree with this one!
12/11/2010
Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by J's Alley
Not really, maybe for you it is...

The right time would be when you're really ready. I would take to hear what Airen says...she would be the one I would trust on this here at EF.

I have a friend who has been considering it for a ...
I was in the same situation as your friend. We decided that because I wasn't sure how I would react we would forgo the experience.
12/11/2010
UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
It ok as long as both partners are absolutely 110% sure it's something they want to do. It's very important to make sure you set ground rules ahead of time.
12/12/2010
Lady Neshamah Lady Neshamah
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Originally posted by UnknownGirl
It ok as long as both partners are absolutely 110% sure it's something they want to do. It's very important to make sure you set ground rules ahead of time.
all to true and that is just how i have done it in the past with my husband.
12/17/2010
hive83 hive83
Quote:
Originally posted by PleasureNFantasy
WHEN IS IT OK TO INVITE A 3RD PERSON INTO UR SEX LIFE, BEDROOM?
Not a real good idea. I also would go with NEVER.
12/24/2010
sweet seduction sweet seduction
Depends on your situation
01/05/2011
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