After marriage did you get a little to comfortable and loose your spice/sex drive/etc.?
For myself and wife it is pretty good, we do not have children. We both chose not to have any, so we don't have the interuptions couples with kids do. I have noticed alot of divorced friends state they have better sex lives, one due to new partner also the fact their kids are older or moved out. Not sure if this is same all over.
We both did for a few years, we had a lot of things going on that required all of our attention and we let sex sit in a box somewhere. We did pick up and start running again a few years ago and I don't ever want to put it that box again!