Do you like anal penetration?

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Do you like anal penetration?

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Do you adore it, or do you hate it? How were you first introduced to it, if you've tried it? Would you try it, if you haven't?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Never tried, and don't want to.
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It's disgusting. I've tried it, and I never want to go back there.
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Tried it, and love it.
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Never tried it, but I really want to!
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Total votes: 363 (361 voters)
Poll is closed
08/26/2010
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Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
I like it so much more after reading Tristan Taormino's Guide though. I had no idea anal sex didn't have, and isn't supposed, to hurt!
08/27/2010
MsTryska MsTryska
There should be a neutral - "Tried it, not for me" option.
Not sure why it would be disgusting unless you are doing it wrong or someone didn't prep properly beforehand.

For myself - not really a big fan of things in my butt, although I can cum really hard from my own finger there and then not need another orgasm for a week. But it's such a delicate area, I don't really want anyone else poking and prodding there.

For my bf - i LOVE sticking things in his butt.
08/27/2010
sexysweetieshan sexysweetieshan
Yeah I agree with MsTryska. There should be like a "Tried it, and it was okay, but it's not like super fun". Before getting married to my husband, we did ONLY anal and back then it was great. But once we got married and tried vaginal sex, I SO much prefer it to anal anyday. So it's not like gross or disgusting, but it's just not as fun as some other things. I wouldn't say I love it though.
08/27/2010
Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
Quote:
Originally posted by MsTryska
There should be a neutral - "Tried it, not for me" option.
Not sure why it would be disgusting unless you are doing it wrong or someone didn't prep properly beforehand.

For myself - not really a big fan of things in my butt, ...
I agree 100% It's not my thing, but I don't think it's disgusting at all. And I love using toys for anal on other people.
08/27/2010
SexyySarah SexyySarah
I love it! I use to be scared of it, but then I found a partner (my hubby now) that knows how to do it right and make it feel good!
08/27/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
I love it.

I agree the "tried it and it isn't for me" option should have been available, Not everybody likes being penetrated anally, but they don't necessarily think it's "disgusting" it's just something that they found doesn't ring their bell!

The orgasms from anal penetration and double penetration are really different than clitoral or G Spot orgasms. Even for women. I find myself purring like a cat, something I have NEVER done during any activity before. Nina Hartley has a good chapter on anal love in her book Nina Hartley's Guide to Total Sex and she also said she makes unusual noises during anal penetration. It made me feel better, because it was something I had NO control over and had no idea it would happen. Knowing other people have had the same reaction (making really unusual animal like noises) during anal sex was a revelation and now My Man and I think it's really cool that I have this reaction.
08/27/2010
Liz2 Liz2
My first experience was horrible, no lube and brute force. It took me awhile to get over it but now I love it! Butt plugs are regularly part of my play.
08/27/2010
aleong aleong
I have attempted to, but have never succeeded. It really scares me, but I hope I'll get to experience it one day.
08/27/2010
Tuesday Tuesday
I liked it when I tried it but will never do it again. I'm just not sturdy enough back there.
08/27/2010
ScottA ScottA
Tried it, like it, still do it. I was self-introduced to the idea - I heard about people doing it, figured that there must be something to it, so I tried it. Didn't know what I was doing at first, but fortunately didn't hurt anything (and did things "right enough" to enjoy it).
08/27/2010
LikeSunshineDust LikeSunshineDust
I voted the last option, but only because it's the closest to me. I haven't, but I would if my partner really wanted to. J has absolutely no interest in it, so I don't see it happening. Honestly, I'm ok with that.
08/31/2010
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
I am pretty much just like ScottA, only I just recently found the joys of having my wife do it though. For me the health benefits are a big plus.
08/31/2010
shankinbro shankinbro
I started playing with my asshole in highschool, and I love it. The sensations the feelings, its all pretty awesome. My favorite feeling is the stretching feeling when inserting the first toy of the night, lol.
08/31/2010
deltalima deltalima
I haven't tried it but maybe I might.
09/01/2010
Waterfall Waterfall
I tried it, and I kind of like it. Still looking to experiment more and see how I feel about it in the future.
09/01/2010
RadRach RadRach
I give it 2 thumbs up!
09/02/2010
Lady Venus Lady Venus
When I was 18, I had a BF who forced anal on me, you could call it rape, and ever since then I have had a phobia of anal pen. I've tried to do it but tense up before it even happens.
09/03/2010
deadpoet deadpoet
I have gotten use to it after a while. I didn't like it for the most, for personal reasons. but my BF changed my mind.
09/03/2010
PurpleBerry PurpleBerry
I've never tried because I know it would just be to much. Plus I just can't bring myself to even think about it.
09/07/2010
clp clp
I love anal!! Both for myself and for my partner. It is a required and important aspect of my sexuality. That has a lot to do with how I developed as a youngin', the way that I approached sex and sexuality as I grew up, and also just my expectation for intimacy with partners. I don't often engage in solo anal play, because that closeness and trust is a good portion of what makes anal so enjoyable for me. Other words like submission, humiliation, ownership factor into the enjoyment.

Not that it is my place to recommend anything under the sun, but I see it this way: I enjoy exploring my body sexually and don't draw lines around what should or shouldn't qualify for pleasure. Any type of play is at least worth trying.

If interested, I highly recommend a read at this essay by Chelsea G Summers called the Good, the Bad, and the Anal.
09/07/2010
FrenchKisser FrenchKisser
with small toys or beads only.
09/07/2010
SeXXXcapades SeXXXcapades
I've done it to Alisha, I loved it, she didn't... I'm not sure I'm interested in having it done to me, maybe some day...
09/08/2010
Liz2 Liz2
Quote:
Originally posted by Lady Venus
When I was 18, I had a BF who forced anal on me, you could call it rape, and ever since then I have had a phobia of anal pen. I've tried to do it but tense up before it even happens.
Try not to give up on anal pleasure...it can be awesome! Suggest you get a butt plug plug along the lines of the Ryder, Infinity or a dil with a base and try yourself. You could be pleasantly surprised, and so worth it!
09/10/2010
ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by Liz2
Try not to give up on anal pleasure...it can be awesome! Suggest you get a butt plug plug along the lines of the Ryder, Infinity or a dil with a base and try yourself. You could be pleasantly surprised, and so worth it!
Start with fingers, since you have much more control over speed, they're nice and small, and you get feedback. Plugs and dildos are later. External touching is a good way to start, since you can get used to the feelings without having any stretching.

Don't feel you have to try something. Wait as long as you need to.
09/10/2010
silversnowleopardess silversnowleopardess
For the longest time, I absolutely hated it. An ex boyfriend was far too rough and condemning of me when there was a bit of mess when he finished, so I had a lot of issues with it.

When I first got together with my husband, I told him that in order for him to have anal sex with me, he'd have to let me have anal sex with him. He let me go first, so I felt obligated to let him try.

He was so gentle, went slow, used lube and explained to me how to relax my muscles enough to have anal without pain. It's actually quite pleasant for me now.
09/13/2010
GreenDaisy3 GreenDaisy3
The first time it happened my hubby kind of just did it and I was scared, but as he continued to penetrate me it felt really good. Now there are times I request anal over vaginal and it could just be because I have a partner that knows how to do it. At least for me.
09/16/2010
mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
i wouldnt say love it but it nice. prefer vaginal penitration. what kills me about anal is the first couple of min. cause oh my goodness it hurts. but oncve im past that. WOW!!! feels amazing
09/17/2010
CleverKitty CleverKitty
I did it for the first time when I was 16 with my dads mini maglight flashlight and well I've been hooked ever since. Sometimes I think it's easier to come from anal penetration than vaginal. It hits my g-spot from a whole new angle.
09/17/2010
ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by mrs.mckrakn
i wouldnt say love it but it nice. prefer vaginal penitration. what kills me about anal is the first couple of min. cause oh my goodness it hurts. but oncve im past that. WOW!!! feels amazing
If you can say "oh my goodness it hurts" then you need to change the way you go about it. You know you like it, so find some ways to relax more before "taking the plunge".
09/17/2010
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