Does anyone else have young children at home?

The New Intimacy

Does anyone else have young children at home?

Skip to last post
Set alerts
Updates
Forum search
Contributor: LoveReImagined LoveReImagined
Do you ever have a rough time turning off the "mommy/daddy" switch and turning on the "I want to fuck" switch?
I have 3 young kids and have seem to found a routine that works well with flipping this switch, but most of the time it seems like it's almost always ON! Anyone else?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
No Young Kids
Pete's Princess , eri86 , Taylor , SexScienceAndFood , U3H
5
Yes Kids - No Difficulty Flipping the Switch
paynosprincess
1
Yes Kids - I'm way too tired for Sexy Time
Yes Kids - It's Difficult to Flip the Switch (PLEASE EXPLAIN)
Thong man
1
Yes Kids - Just Depends On the Day (PLEASE EXPLAIN)
BlackOrchid , LoveReImagined , Bihubby , virgomama616 , QueerFemmeinist
5
Yes Kids - The Switch is Always ON
Total votes: 12 (12 voters)
Poll is closed
06/16/2014
  • Save Extra 50% On Sexobot Attachment
  • Upgrade Your Hands-Free Play!
  • Save 70% On Selected Items. Limited Quantity
  • Complete strap-on set for extra 15% off
  • Save 50% On Shower Nozzle With Enema Set
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
All promotions
Contributor: BlackOrchid BlackOrchid
I have one, a 5 year old. It gets easier the older she gets, with a set bedtime and if we want a quickie we can tell her to play in her room for a few minutes.

It was definitely harder when she was younger, required more constant attention and was so unpredictable.

3 young children, must be very demanding!
06/18/2014
Contributor: LoveReImagined LoveReImagined
Quote:
Originally posted by BlackOrchid
I have one, a 5 year old. It gets easier the older she gets, with a set bedtime and if we want a quickie we can tell her to play in her room for a few minutes.

It was definitely harder when she was younger, required more constant attention and ... more
Three kids is a bit much! I remember when we only had one...oh how much easier things were! Now our oldest boy is about to be 8, the younger boy is about to be 6, and our 1 and only girl is 1 1/2.

I'm a stay at home mom...so shutting off the mom switch and flipping on the sexy wife switch is a bit rough sometimes. It's almost impossible to find time together as husband and wife. Everything tends to revolve around being mom and dad. Which is fine!

After almost 10 years of marriage, I think we have finally found what works for us, at least for now. Even when cooking dinner we are grabbing eachother and giving little kisses. I think it's hard for a lot of people to find that balance with kids around but it's also important for the kids to see how much mommy and daddy love eachother..of course the bedroom is a different story tho!!
06/18/2014
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Our three are grown now. Yes when they were young it was always on. We usually got them to bed early. Then it was our time. We tried to set "Date Nights " Thursday, Friday and Saturdays.
06/20/2014
Contributor: Bihubby Bihubby
Quote:
Originally posted by LoveReImagined
Do you ever have a rough time turning off the "mommy/daddy" switch and turning on the "I want to fuck" switch?
I have 3 young kids and have seem to found a routine that works well with flipping this switch, but most of the ... more
We have two young children and it is hit or miss with us depending on work and the kids behavior whether we are ready to go or not. On days when it is on we cannot wait until the kids' bedtime. We are headed straight to bed to play, but other days we get them to bed and just lay around not wanting to do anything for a few hours and then head to bed for sleep.
06/21/2014
Contributor: LoveReImagined LoveReImagined
Quote:
Originally posted by LoveReImagined
Do you ever have a rough time turning off the "mommy/daddy" switch and turning on the "I want to fuck" switch?
I have 3 young kids and have seem to found a routine that works well with flipping this switch, but most of the ... more
It's nice to know that we all handle the kiddo situation very similarly. I'm slightly surprised that handling the situation doesn't differ a little kore. thank you all for the responses.
06/21/2014
Contributor: QueerFemmeinist QueerFemmeinist
Quote:
Originally posted by LoveReImagined
Do you ever have a rough time turning off the "mommy/daddy" switch and turning on the "I want to fuck" switch?
I have 3 young kids and have seem to found a routine that works well with flipping this switch, but most of the ... more
No issues except if he is sick and up frequently or has a nightmare or something. As long as he is sleeping normally and on schedule, I am okay.
07/14/2014
Contributor: toysforall toysforall
YES! We struggle to find time for ourselves. Luckily our kids are heavy sleepers!
09/16/2014
Contributor: Mandrina27 Mandrina27
Quote:
Originally posted by LoveReImagined
Do you ever have a rough time turning off the "mommy/daddy" switch and turning on the "I want to fuck" switch?
I have 3 young kids and have seem to found a routine that works well with flipping this switch, but most of the ... more
My husband and I have a one year old daughter at home. She stays with us most of the time but she has a greedy papa who keeps her at least once a week. I think we stay in the mommy daddy mode 24/7!
11/05/2015