Help, please! My sex life is starting to bore me...

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Help, please! My sex life is starting to bore me...

sexykiss sexykiss
okay my sex life is starting to bore me idk what to do anymore. i like to have fun i like to be rough i like to have sex outside of my bedroom, im up for anything. my gf doesnt want to be to rough with me because she thinks shes going to hurt me and she isnt that type of person. she doesnt roll play she doesnt do anything. she doesnt even want to have sex that much, idk if its her age she is 43 and im 24 may be the differece, so i would like some help can you guys give me some ideas? also is there any pills or anything i can give her to get in the mood kinda like vigara for women! lol
06/18/2012
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Petite Valentine Petite Valentine
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Originally posted by sexykiss
okay my sex life is starting to bore me idk what to do anymore. i like to have fun i like to be rough i like to have sex outside of my bedroom, im up for anything. my gf doesnt want to be to rough with me because she thinks shes going to hurt me and ...
Before you start tossing little blue pills at her, I would sit down and talk. Is there a physical reason she doesn't want to have sex that often or to "get rough" as you put it? Is she opposed to what you're suggesting, or just extremely nervous since she's never tried it before, or tried it and had a bad experience? Does she realize that you're bored?

Communication, communication, communication…
06/18/2012
sexykiss sexykiss
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Originally posted by Petite Valentine
Before you start tossing little blue pills at her, I would sit down and talk. Is there a physical reason she doesn't want to have sex that often or to "get rough" as you put it? Is she opposed to what you're suggesting, or just ...
idk if she realizes that i bored, but she does take medicine and her meds make it hard for her to get off. she says she is broken no matter what she always has a really hard time. and shes never had a bad expeierce with roughness she just isnt into that i guess idk but i am really sick of if you want sex get the lotion rub my back then lay here so i can do you. i dont want it to feel like a job that she is having to have to have sex with me. and i think thats how she feels. im sick of missionary all the time and it is so frustrating.
06/19/2012
Petite Valentine Petite Valentine
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Originally posted by sexykiss
idk if she realizes that i bored, but she does take medicine and her meds make it hard for her to get off. she says she is broken no matter what she always has a really hard time. and shes never had a bad expeierce with roughness she just isnt into ...
My first suggestion is to sit down and have a talk, and I don't mean when you're ready to have sex. When you both have a private moment and the time, i.e. one of you isn't running off to work or an appointment, sit down and talk with her about how you're feeling. Be honest, but don't look to lay blame. Discuss things you can do as a couple to improve your sex life.

Good luck!
06/19/2012
sexykiss sexykiss
Quote:
Originally posted by Petite Valentine
My first suggestion is to sit down and have a talk, and I don't mean when you're ready to have sex. When you both have a private moment and the time, i.e. one of you isn't running off to work or an appointment, sit down and talk with her ...
i dont even know how to start
06/19/2012
Petite Valentine Petite Valentine
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Originally posted by sexykiss
i dont even know how to start
First step is to tell her you want to have a private talk. Let her know that it's nothing she needs to panic over, but you want her full attention: no tv, no pets/kids (if that's an issue) — no distractions.

Brew some coffee or make lemonade, whatever might help you both relax, and tell her how you've been feeling. Most importantly, tell her that you want to work together with her to make things better.
06/19/2012
sexykiss sexykiss
thank you i will try that
06/20/2012
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