How do you spice things up other than in the bedroom?

Mylo Mylo
I want to know what keeps you interested in each other besides what goes on in the bedroom. Although sex is wonderful and an important part of a relationship the other little non-sexual things are just as important. Take my poll below but if you could give me details below that would be great.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Date nights as often as possible
18
Little things like notes in my significant other's lunch
10
Letting them know each day why I care and love them.
14
Total votes: 42 (24 voters)
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11/29/2012
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Babylove09 Babylove09
Quote:
Originally posted by Mylo
I want to know what keeps you interested in each other besides what goes on in the bedroom. Although sex is wonderful and an important part of a relationship the other little non-sexual things are just as important. Take my poll below but if you ... More
There should be an option for other. For us we go on dates as often as possible being that we have a little one the time we spend on dates is great. I pack him a lunch every once in a while and he loves it. My husband also surprises me sometimes with my favorite candy or ice cream when he comes home from work. It's all the little things that mean the most to us
11/29/2012
no longer here no longer here
We do things together...We both enjoy cooking so we cook together...Mrs bakes and Mr likes to eat what she bakes so he helps...we both enjoy baseball so we watch it on TV and go to games...we surf Eden together...We play card games...just spend time together.

We also text each other frequently during the day.
11/29/2012
married with children married with children
do something special for them that they were not expecting.
11/29/2012
G&L G&L
We try to go on "dates" has much as possible but our favorite thing to do is go to the local park for a walk and just talk.
11/29/2012
True Pleasures True Pleasures
I find little notes from him every once in a while. There's random texting about things like "Be sure to buy some pretzels after work. The microwave ones, not the little ones. I want something long and salty." just to play around and flirt a bit, too. We have to be kind of careful, because his phone belongs to the company he works at.
11/29/2012
js250 js250
Common interests we both look forward to and laughing together. When you actually enjoy the other person's company and have things to do you both love it is easy to find the smaller things to keep it all glued in place. It is when you start replacing the together enjoyment and activities with others done alone or with friends that the glue starts to fall apart,.
11/30/2012
Kirill1171 Kirill1171
Letting them know each day why I care and love them.
11/30/2012
Kitka Kitka
All of the above! Mostly it's about the little things for us because we can't do date nights too often so a cute note or treat in his lunch bag is a great way to show him I care and think about him. Simple texts to him while he's at work saying "Miss you" or "Love you" are nice as well.
11/30/2012
lainebug lainebug
Quote:
Originally posted by Mylo
I want to know what keeps you interested in each other besides what goes on in the bedroom. Although sex is wonderful and an important part of a relationship the other little non-sexual things are just as important. Take my poll below but if you ... More
dating is importatnt
12/07/2012
7Miles 7Miles
We do things together: play non sexual games, cook together, cuddle and watch movies. He made me breakfast in bed a couple of nights ago. He is very wonderful
12/08/2012
novanilla novanilla
We just always are sure to do something fun together once a week even though we are very busy college students. Hopefully if we are together after graduation (which is looming so close to me now!) we will be able to do things more often than that.

We watch movies and tv shows together, go out on dates, go for walks in the woods, go shopping, talk about politics (we have the same views on most things), and so forth.
12/09/2012
falalena falalena
Quote:
Originally posted by Mylo
I want to know what keeps you interested in each other besides what goes on in the bedroom. Although sex is wonderful and an important part of a relationship the other little non-sexual things are just as important. Take my poll below but if you ... More
we have a little thing in our kitchen that says "i love you because..." and you write what you want with a dry erase marker on it. its funny some of the things that get put on there. we went on date nights for a long time, but havent done it in a while.
01/01/2013
FunFantasys FunFantasys
Quote:
Originally posted by Mylo
I want to know what keeps you interested in each other besides what goes on in the bedroom. Although sex is wonderful and an important part of a relationship the other little non-sexual things are just as important. Take my poll below but if you ... More
Sometimes, just laying in bed all day together is the best.
01/06/2013
woodsdragon woodsdragon
We do little things every now and then. Like leaving a message on the mirror or put a calendar event in each others phone with a romantic message. We like to cuddle and in all honesty after a long day that sometimes is exactly what I need. I think it is in finding what works for you and your partner and making time to be with them
01/07/2013
captainsgirl captainsgirl
all of the above!
01/07/2013
captainsgirl captainsgirl
always make time for each other, always kiss goodnight, date nights,etc..lights go out its costumes toys and lots of fun
01/13/2013
captainsgirl captainsgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by woodsdragon
We do little things every now and then. Like leaving a message on the mirror or put a calendar event in each others phone with a romantic message. We like to cuddle and in all honesty after a long day that sometimes is exactly what I need. I think ... More
we do that too
01/13/2013
captainsgirl captainsgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by woodsdragon
We do little things every now and then. Like leaving a message on the mirror or put a calendar event in each others phone with a romantic message. We like to cuddle and in all honesty after a long day that sometimes is exactly what I need. I think ... More
we do that too
01/13/2013
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Unique posters: 16