We *usually* have sex every day (often times more than once a day) but he's been working a lot and has been a little on the tired side, so probably 5 days out of the week (so, probably between 5-10 times per week). We have three small children. 5years, 3years, and 10months. They all go to bed at the same time (7:30pm) and we spend time together after that. They wake up around 7:30am, and we have time before that (he usually leaves for work around 5:30am. There was ways to make time for it, even with a small child in your home. You have to compromise. You have to MAKE time if it's not coming naturally. Some nights I'm really tired, but I also really love my husband. Taking 20mins before bed to make love to the man I'm crazy about isn't going to deprive me of sleep! It's going to make me sleep better! It's all about give and take and remembering that you're not just a parent, you're a spouse too!!