How to get your husband to open up to new things

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How to get your husband to open up to new things

LoveDrunk LoveDrunk
My husband is plenty adventurous, but he has a hard time opening up to things that are considered kinkier, like anal play. There are some things I really want to try, but he always counters with something like, "You know I don't like that sort of thing." Problem is, he has never even tried most things to know he doesn't like them. How can I get him to appeal to my kinkier side?
12/10/2011
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Rossie Rossie
Just secretly purchase a good quality anal plug, get comfortable playing with it in private. Plug it in one night, and give him a big surprise. Since it's already inside you, he doesn't have to do anything aside from having PIV sex with you, what objection can he make?
12/10/2011
Kkay Kkay
Ask him what he is interested in trying. I've also found that adding kink is something that can be best done in steps- starting with something smaller and milder than what you're ultimately interested in.
12/10/2011
Jnuts Jnuts
Do you mean anal play with him as the receiver or you as the receiver? If he has hangups with you penetrating him anally, this is actually quite common. A lot of times men can't get beyond the homosexual connotations that anal play is synonymous with. I had some of the same issues, not only with this but with other kinks that I have that seem to be just downright "gay".

If that is the problem in his case, hopefully he can work through it because anal play is great!
12/10/2011
duff duff
I have the same problem
12/11/2011
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