I asked my husband and first he said, "Isn't that kind of the point?" Then he said that good/bad orgasms are hit or miss anyway. He really doesn't care since I don't orgasm from vaginal stimulation, and I'm enjoying him at the same time.
Yeah, enjoy it! I want my partner to have the best orgasms possible when she is with me, if I start getting hung up on "you like your toys better than me" BS, then that's going to probably ruin the fun for everyone!