Kinky ideas for a married couple?

Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
Anyone have some hot/kinky ideas for a married couple? I've poured through dozens of articles and websites, but I was wondering what you guys could come up with. We're heterosexual, in our 20's, and not willing to consider anything having to do with pee/poop or bringing anyone else into the relationship/bed with us. Thanks in advance, I can't wait to read your ideas!
10/24/2013
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Rossie Rossie
What about oral sex? I did not see you leaving a response in this "Do you like to eat pussy?" thread, so do you guys perform oral sex on each other? Most of us consider oral sex as a regular routine and is not kinky at all, but others might find it kinky.
10/24/2013
C&K0143 C&K0143
Pegging has become a large part of our sex life now. Two out of three times, it’s my wife who wants to do it. Great role reversal and it opens a entire new realm of sex between a hetero couple (like my wife and I) ie. Anal. - C
10/25/2013
AimDriver AimDriver
Bondage, so many avenues of naughty fun..it brought a whole new level of kink to our marriage.
10/26/2013
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by Rossie
What about oral sex? I did not see you leaving a response in this "Do you like to eat pussy?" thread, so do you guys perform oral sex on each other? Most of us consider oral sex as a regular routine and is not kinky at all, but others might ... More
Already do that, thanks though.
11/05/2013
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by AimDriver
Bondage, so many avenues of naughty fun..it brought a whole new level of kink to our marriage.
He's considering trying this one, and it's something I've been interested in for years. Have any ideas for discipline or ways he could tease me once he ties me up? How about ways to get him to consider letting me put handcuffs on him?
11/05/2013
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by C&K0143
Pegging has become a large part of our sex life now. Two out of three times, it’s my wife who wants to do it. Great role reversal and it opens a entire new realm of sex between a hetero couple (like my wife and I) ie. Anal. - C
Somehow I doubt that's gonna happen, but thanks for the idea.
11/05/2013
Adnerbmw Adnerbmw
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Originally posted by Lvstoplay
He's considering trying this one, and it's something I've been interested in for years. Have any ideas for discipline or ways he could tease me once he ties me up? How about ways to get him to consider letting me put handcuffs on him?
We started out slow like with almost anything else in the bedroom. we started with a soft velcro pair of cuffs so that i didnt feel too trapped at first and we started there and he would tie me up and would slowly touch all over me so that when it tickled of was too much i couldnt fight back and it was oh so thrilling and we have just moved on from there.
11/05/2013
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Lvstoplay
Anyone have some hot/kinky ideas for a married couple? I've poured through dozens of articles and websites, but I was wondering what you guys could come up with. We're heterosexual, in our 20's, and not willing to consider anything ... More
We are going to offer a bit of different advice. We suggest you start surfing here on the EF forums together. Click on ALL the different subject types. Read things together. Speak to each other. Say "Oh...that sounds fun" or "yuk, no way", so you get a better idea of what areas you can explore with each other, and which you might better avoid. In that way, you may BOTH discover some hot/kinky things you are willing to try or maybe even both feel is "hot", and can learn new things about each other in the process.
11/05/2013
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by Bignuf
We are going to offer a bit of different advice. We suggest you start surfing here on the EF forums together. Click on ALL the different subject types. Read things together. Speak to each other. Say "Oh...that sounds fun" or "yuk, no ... More
I've sent him several links, unfortunately between work and classes he doesn't get much time to read them... Hoping he'll get time to finish reading them this weekend.
11/07/2013
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by Adnerbmw
We started out slow like with almost anything else in the bedroom. we started with a soft velcro pair of cuffs so that i didnt feel too trapped at first and we started there and he would tie me up and would slowly touch all over me so that when it ... More
Sounds intriguing... I'd love to hear more if you care to share.
11/07/2013
Bubba29 Bubba29
do you share your wants and fantasys? you never know what avenues that may take you down. we spend a lot of time massaging each other. i wash my wife as she stands in the bath...she loves that and it's a great prep for the show. we've tried a penis extension to make it seem like she is having sex with a huge penis. explore the pleasure of prostate and g spot play. the u spot is also something we've discovered recently, she loves that. try dressing up in lingerie for him. try anal sex and add a toy for double penetration. there are many ways to go but it's up to both of you to figure out what you like.
11/07/2013
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by Bubba29
do you share your wants and fantasys? you never know what avenues that may take you down. we spend a lot of time massaging each other. i wash my wife as she stands in the bath...she loves that and it's a great prep for the show. we've ... More
The u spot? I'm afraid I'm not familar with that one. I've shared some of my fantasies, but if he has any he hasn't shared them with me.
11/07/2013
Oriental husband and wife Oriental husband and wife
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Originally posted by Lvstoplay
Somehow I doubt that's gonna happen, but thanks for the idea.
Pegging is a big jump if he has not experienced anal play. Perhaps while giving him oral, finger his anus or with a small toy. Be sure to use a little lube. You might be able to test his reaction by cleaning his anus in the shower. The anus has a lot of sensory whatever u call its.
11/14/2013
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by Oriental husband and wife
Pegging is a big jump if he has not experienced anal play. Perhaps while giving him oral, finger his anus or with a small toy. Be sure to use a little lube. You might be able to test his reaction by cleaning his anus in the shower. The anus has a ... More
Thanks, I'll keep it in mind.
11/19/2013
Vinroe Vinroe
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Originally posted by Lvstoplay
Anyone have some hot/kinky ideas for a married couple? I've poured through dozens of articles and websites, but I was wondering what you guys could come up with. We're heterosexual, in our 20's, and not willing to consider anything ... More
I don't know what your feelings are on porn but it can have it's uses. My wife and I play a game when watching porn called "I COULD DO THAT." We pick a random scene from porn and the person who says I could do that must perform it. If they don't hit the mark then they owe the other person a sexual favor etc. of their choosing (serving breakfast in just the apron what have you).

I like this game because it allows you to role play without having to come up with a scenario on the fly (which if you're new to role playing means the first time you're left feeling more silly and uncomfortable than sexy and seductive).
12/02/2013
Pandora'sBox Pandora'sBox
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Originally posted by Vinroe
I don't know what your feelings are on porn but it can have it's uses. My wife and I play a game when watching porn called "I COULD DO THAT." We pick a random scene from porn and the person who says I could do that must perform it. ... More
That actually sounds fun. My husband and I tried porn and it was really boring so we ended up turning it off. But doing that seems like a different way of doing it. Good suggestion!
12/20/2013
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by C&K0143
Pegging has become a large part of our sex life now. Two out of three times, it’s my wife who wants to do it. Great role reversal and it opens a entire new realm of sex between a hetero couple (like my wife and I) ie. Anal. - C
That is a good one. We too are glad we tried that. Even just direct prostate stimulation of the guy with your finger during oral is amazing for him.
May 13, 7:57 am
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Vinroe
I don't know what your feelings are on porn but it can have it's uses. My wife and I play a game when watching porn called "I COULD DO THAT." We pick a random scene from porn and the person who says I could do that must perform it. ... More
We have played that same game for years! It's how we first decided to try "upside down, piledriver anal"! Looks super silly and it's not the position you want to be in daily, but just for fun, when it was happening on the screen, I said "I can do that", and promptly flipped myself off the edge of the bed. One or two licks of my tush, with me upside down, had him hard as a rock and as he watched the scene on TV, I got the first piledriver anal of my life...and it was awesome. Not only did I cum four or five times, but I squirted (gushed) and since I was upside down, it dripped down my belly, onto my boobs and even on my chin, which he promptly cleaned up with his tongue. It was totally smoking sex. Yes...try this video mimic game. Well worth it.
May 13, 8:01 am
Husband and Wife Husband and Wife
It's all about pushing the limits. You just have to find the limits and test the water.. Tell your hubby pegging is a wonderful thing, just takes trust and lots of work before you go thur it. My wife and I have done it for years. But good luck with whatever you try
May 13, 8:44 am
Bihubby Bihubby
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Originally posted by Lvstoplay
Anyone have some hot/kinky ideas for a married couple? I've poured through dozens of articles and websites, but I was wondering what you guys could come up with. We're heterosexual, in our 20's, and not willing to consider anything ... More
I definitely have to agree the role reversal is a lot of fun for us but I understand so would not be into that. I saw in previous posts about trying the finger and that is a great idea even if you do not actually insert your finger at first just rubbing over the anus while performing oral feels great. If that is an interest for you start slow and gradually work up to inserting the finger and when you do watch out he may go wild from sensory overload.
Jun 21, 6:49 am
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