marriage? with others?

Jo Nana Jo Nana
Jo Nana
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Do you have a "list"? Some people on a relationship are soo in love but still have a list of few people they could have sex with. Do you think its wrong?
09/19/2011
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froggiemoma froggiemoma
I think it is...
09/19/2011
CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by Jo Nana
Do you have a "list"? Some people on a relationship are soo in love but still have a list of few people they could have sex with. Do you think its wrong?
I dont have a list but I do have guys I'm having sex with. But my marriage is a sexually. Open - emotionaly closed one - meaning casual sex for just sex is fine with prior discussion and mutual agreement between my husband and I - but no "dating" or emotional type stuff
09/19/2011
Rossie Rossie
I'm more traditional when it comes to marriage and sex, so I believe it's wrong.
09/19/2011
mandiegk mandiegk
I don't think it's wrong, everyone needs to make their own decisions about what is right for their marriage. Also, a for some people the lists are just jokes because there is no way it is ever going to happen. My boyfriend doesn't actually think he will ever get propositioned by Cheryl Cole, that's why she is on the list and not the hot girl next door who has been trying to get in his pants for months.
09/19/2011
Valentinka Valentinka
Well, a person may have kind of "fantasy sex list" and, I guess, there's nothing wrong with it. But following that list is another question
09/19/2011
sexyintexas sexyintexas
I guess as long as both of the people in the marriage are consentual with it then it's fine. Personally I would kill him dead if he tried to fullfill his list, at least without inviting me lol.
09/19/2011
indiglo indiglo
It totally depends on the relationship. Some relationships are open, and it would be fine to have sex with other people. My man and I are monogamous by choice though, so this would not be ok with either of us.
09/19/2011
catgirl9 catgirl9
No lists for us. I don't think it's wrong, but depends on the marriage and whether each partner is okay with it.
09/19/2011
Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
i think some marriages can do lists (and fulfill) them without issue, and some are better off being monogamous. I wouldn't mind if he had a list, but I'd be mad if he acted on it
09/19/2011
Peggi Peggi
I agree it depends on the couple and what the boundaries of the marriage are.

Being in poly or open relationships allows for rules while still having sex or relationships outside the marriage, which to me is okay, as long as all parties are consenting and aware.

To me, though, if one or more parties is not aware of the situation at hand, it is wrong.
09/20/2011
married with children married with children
I feel it is wrong.
09/21/2011
socalsusieq socalsusieq
I don't think its wrong if two people are in an open relationship and are honest and open about it
09/22/2011
Lizzy Lizzy
Really?
02/14/2012
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