Maybe you all could help me out some. I feel like no matter what I do that I am just not enough. If you told me ten years ago that I would own nipple rings, nipple clamps, cock cages, paddles, handcuffs, remote vibrators and a slew of other vibrators now I would tell you you're crazy. I used to be boring and because my husband wanted more spice I have tried to give it, ie all the items listed above. Now though, it seems his fantasy involves me being with another man and I can't do that, won't do that. I have changed tons and he just doesn't see that is has been much. He tells me to read erotic stories, so I do. Then he says to find ones with light bondage and I do. Then he says find ones about dominatrix, so I do. Then it escalates to him wanting me to read one about infidelity and it shuts me down. I can't keep up or get ahead. I thought I was doing everything right. I even bought and practice pole dancing, not just for him but for myself as well. I feel like it is only a matter of time before he cheats on me to get what he wants. Any thoughts?